Love or Infatuation, what do people actually feel?

These days many young teens come out to say they love an opposite sex, but what do they feel, is it love or infatuation? I'll be discussing what love and infatuation or rather "lust" is all about in this article.

The word "love" has now been commonized in the society today that it doesn't mean anything emotional any longer. People develop a feeling for a short period of time and call it love, well I'll call it infatuation.

INFATUATION This is a feeling that comes and leaves over a short period of time, people mistake it for love because they feel attracted to that thing or that person due to either the person's vibe at that particular moment or because that person is only available at that time. People have made lot of mistakes in relationships and marriages because they were infatuated, they were never inlove, the feeling they have for the other person diminish after they've spent a lot of time together, the vibe they feel suddenly die and that is what eventually leads to a broken relationship. When there is no love in the relationship, they'll tend to argue more, one party of the relationship won't be happy and will be scared of the reaction the partner will take due to something they say. Infatuation is that feeling you have when you meet someone new and you vibe a lot and then you'll say you love the person, but no, that isn't love because you've not known the person one bit. Along the line you might even end up hating the person's particular character that doesn't suit well with you because you didn't take time to know the person before saying you're inlove with the person

LOVE They say love is something that you can use a lifetime to study because love is a very complicated thing. I don't know much about it yet because one can't fully comprehend how broad love can be. Some call love obsession because when you're inlove with a person, you won't be sure how to act around that person, you won't want to make mistake or do anything wrong at all, you'll be vulnerable. Sometimes people get jealous a lot when they're inlove and some people tend to do things they will never do because of love. When there's love, any misunderstanding will be settled, communication will be the most prime thing there. I can't say much about love now because when one is inlove, it's like you're learning daily.

So let's not mix infatuation with love because we feel a strong feeling for a person, that doesn't mean we are inlove, the feeling might just end up fading away because what we felt isn't love, it's infatuation. So in order to have a perfect relationship, let's be sure whether we truly love a person or what we feel will just end up fading.