What made you change your mind?

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I would simply believe that most people do change their mind on certain things. Sometimes it could be it's because of some challenges that they are facing at the moment that make them to change their mind. Changing of mind is not something that would take much time. People can always change their mind within a second. They can change from what they said they will do. And this is really how humans are, I sometimes use to tell people that if they trust other people much more than themselves. They might lose everything in life. In saying someone that really put their trust on someone might not really live long. People would always give them hard attack and unnecessary headache. People would always disappoint them. It could be they promise you A and before you know they change it to B. And at this point you won't do anything than just to keep quiet.

They are some challenges that people would meet on the way and this will cause them to change their mind. I don't really think that changing of mind is giving up on something. Rather it's a way that people change their thoughts. People like changing of mind to some other things in life than giving up on it. A lot of professionals today if they want to tell you what they are passed through It will shock you. People grew up with their different good programming. But at some point they change their mind to something else. If I want to say the whole truth about myself, where I'm and my professional today is not what I really plan. But where I'm today is as a result of what happened and i changed my mind over my first choice.

They are things that would make someone to change his or plans and go for second choice. Meanwhile they are still people who would say they can't go for the second choice if not the first choice and they strive harder and achieved it. The only secret about going for the first choice is that it would take much time and energy. But what made a lot of people to change their mind is time wasted. It could be they have check their age and when they calculate it with the time that they are going to spend they change their mind. Most people change their minds due to the saying which says that time doesn't wait for no one. That it's only human that can wait for time. Some people would always change their mind to avoid time wasted. Or so that they can also catch up with time.

I meet with most friends whom we sat together and planned life ahead. But most of them have changed their minds from the dream they had. Though I behave as a novice to them when asking them what made them to changed their minds. I got some responses from different of them. Some would say that it doesn't really happened the way they thought it would be. Some would say that life would not always offer us what we demand from it. Most friends told me that they wanted to become doctor, they wanted to become nurses and some lawyers but at some point life didn't really offer them what exactly they expected. This is through some challenges and everyday life experience that people are facing. I have received many advice both from my parents and form my elder brothers which I think if it is today that I have stand strong as a man no amount of advice would make me to change my mind from my first choice.

Though I know everything is possible. I can still go for my choice. It's will only take me much time. They are some certain things that would make you to change your mind from a particular plan you had. In most cases the family sometimes do cause it. It could be in choosing a course. Or in choosing a wife. A lot of family would always decide for their child a type of course to read in higher institution. And some would choose for their child a kind of wife or husband they want their child to marry. Most of this things really contributes to changing of minds that most people change.

What really made you to change your mind? Is it some challenges you go through ,or is it because of those who give you advice that made you to change your mind. If you have a good reason of pursing your first choice you can still go for it. If you change your mind because of one problem or the other you can still add your own little experience so that we can learn form it.

Thanks for stopping by; I really appreciate your time.

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Life doesn't give us what we planned most times, the troubles and struggles of life pushes us away to another direction we didn't choose for. One of those factors that cause that often is finance. Finance to sponsor academic to study a desired course

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You're right friend. We need finances to sponsor our dreams to the end.

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These were all the challenges I accepted from life, they were absolutely great game changer for me.

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Life is full with difficulties and challenges. But its those who can stand their ground till the end that would testify.

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Life would always happen and humans will always be humans. One of the things that makes human, human is the fact that we can change our mind at every instance. This is why it's never smart to trust others more than we trust ourselves. We should know ourselves and understand that if we commit too much into the hands of those who have the tendency to change their minds, they will always make us unhappy as you have said.

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You're right in saying friend. Humans can always change at anytime.

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Yes, my friend. I'm happy we are on the same page.

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