I saw a post that had "You can't know the worth of what you have unless you lost it to someone else" If you dont know the worth of something until it is gone, then maybe it is a good thing it is gone, cause clearly it wasnt meant for you. If you don't realise the worth of someone til they leave, were they actually worth anything to you at all? Know people's worth, know your own worth, and don't ever, give anyone, permission to decimate that.