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Five classes of people to value

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September 25, 2021

Hi Guys! It's weekend again and I hope all of you are having a fun weekend with your loved ones.

Every one of us is surrounded by people everywhere we go. There are people that we love, people that we work with, people that's been there with us ever since we are born in this world, and there are people that we value.

I found this on my Facebook timeline that I posted a long long time ago.

So, let's talk about these people that we should value in our life because we admit it or not, not all the people around us value us, not all know's how important they are in our life.

Those that worry about you.

People who worry about you means they care for you. There are the people who checks on you every now and then. They do check you to know if you are doing well or if you need some help, not the type that checks on you just so they can have something to about you, not that one of course. These types of people are usually found in your family and in your circle of friends. These are the ones who make an extra effort to call you, they are the ones who go out of their way just to know that you are doing well, just to check on you. Never let go of this type of people for they truly care about you.

Those that correct you.

We all know that correcting someone is not easy. Calling the attention of a loved one just to let them know what they did wrong is not easy. And admitting that we are wrong is sometimes not easy too. But this type of person who tells you that what you are doing is wrong means they really care for you. It means they want you to succeed in your life that's why they are correcting you. And it took them a lot of courage just to let you know that you are doing something wrong. Value this kind of person, for they want to see you move in the right direction. They want to see you succeed that is why there are there for you every step of the way to guide you and correct you if needed.

check them out.. check them out... check them out... check them out...

Those that are there for the good times and the bad.

Not all people stay during the bad time. There are people who are only there for you during good times. During the time when you have lots of money. During the time when you are up there and weaving all the successes in life. There are people who are only there for the benefit that they are getting but once the benefits are gone, they also disappear. It is so rare to find someone who will be there for you when all you've got is yourself. So when you find this someone make sure to keep him/her. Cherish them. Finding this kind of person is not easy for not all stick with you through good times and bad times.

Those that want to see you do well.

Everyone is doing the best that they can to do well but not everyone around you wants to see you do well. Why? Because there are some people who are envious. There are some who are too selfish to wish the people around them to do well. There are some who just don't want the people around them doing much better than what he/she is doing. And there are some who will wish you well but at the back of their mind, there are saying the opposite of it. Another type of person that you would want to value, that you'd want to keep. If you found this person you are one of the luckiest people. Keep them in your heart forever.

Those that tell you the truth

Truth? Why is it so hard to tell the truth. Why there are people who choose to lie just to cover up the truth. Honestly, no matter how painful the truth is, I want to hear it. I'll choose being hurt with the truth than be comforted with a lie. And for me, no matter how bitter the truth is, one should always hear it and accept it, because only the truth will set you free. And besides, it is hard to trust a person who keeps on lying, who keeps on covering the truth. And yes, finding someone who can tell you the truth, can admit the truth even if it hurts is so rare nowadays. So if you find one, treasure that person and lever let them go. Value them and love them. I'll share you a quote from Steven Aitchison, honesty has a power that very few people can handle and if you find one who can really be honest with you, I hope you already know what to do.

Not all are lucky in finding someone that you can value. Someone who can be honest with you, who wants to see you well, who will be there for you not only in good times but also in bad time, who will correct you if you needed to be corrected and one who worry because of you. Keep them in your heart, treasure them and cherish them. Remeber to value what you have, before it becomes what you had.


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I agreed all of your words. But i've a question.. Why straight forward guys always get scammed by everything?
I mean an innocent guy always get puke others. But why?

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3 weeks ago

I really don't know the answer... maybe they are too trusting?

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3 weeks ago

Yeah maybe it is!! Such a cruel world it is

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3 weeks ago

People come and go, sad ☹ As much as we love to keep them, we just can't. Nevertheless, I am truly grateful for them for coming into my life. They are part of what I have become right now.

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3 weeks ago

yep.. people leave a lesson every time we meet them... and if you are lucky enough. there are people who do stay

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3 weeks ago

Ang swerte magkaroon ng ganong tao sa buhay natin, ngunit aminin man natin o hindi bibihira na lang sila sa mga panahon ngayon. Hope your ok sissy, sounds like different

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3 weeks ago

seryoso sis? sounds like different pa din? oh well mukhang masyado ako nagiging transparent lately

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3 weeks ago

Emotional yata sissy, are you ok?

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3 weeks ago

yep.. dami lang pinagdadaanan.. thanks sis

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3 weeks ago

Take it easy sissy, God is good

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3 weeks ago

There is an advantage to us when we move along with people who adds value to our lives and not the negative type of persons who only criticize and keep complaining of everything we do. There are some friends one should keep and not to keep. Let's beware of them and watch out for the ones you have mentioned. Thank you.

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3 weeks ago

yep we really should be aware of the people that coming into our life.. because not all are for keeps

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3 weeks ago

Totoo toh! Ung ibang tao talaga dumadaan lang sa life natin para turuan tayo minsan, ung iba para mang inis lang heheh! tumpak ung last!

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3 weeks ago

di mo alam kung sadya or nang iinis lang di ba? hahaha

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3 weeks ago

Reality check! People come and go talaga.

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3 weeks ago

It's hard to see people who satisfy all these conditions, and if we find any, we should keep them! Though there are times that they suddenly go away.

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3 weeks ago

People hate those that tell them the truth or correct them which shouldn't be.

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3 weeks ago

The ones who tell us truth, correct us and worry about us, are our true well wisher. I am lucky to have such people around and always be grateful to them for their support. Thanks for amazing article.

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3 weeks ago

Wow I think you forgot one those that pray for you . The other five are correct especially those that correct you . 👍

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3 weeks ago

A friend once told me.. choose friends who love you enough to correct you.

I am keeping that to heart and all the other things you mentioned above.

They are definitely rare.

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3 weeks ago

A friend in need is a friend indeed. True friend should be treasured. It is a blessing to have a friend who wishes only good for us, who is always there to correct us when wevare going wrong, to guide us in straight path etc.

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3 weeks ago

I value the people who are there for me at my worst. And of course my family for their unconditional support.

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3 weeks ago

Hirap po talaga sis makahanap ng tao na ganon..Lalo na yong andyan sayo kapag may probz ka..Kadalasan andyan lang kapag madami kang pera..hahaha.Mabuti nalang sis wala akong madaming pera.hahahaha..Kaya nakahanap talaga ako ng isang tao na laging andyan sa akin lalo na kapag may probz ako..Siya ang bestfriend ko.hehehe

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3 weeks ago

hahahaha yan ang perks ng walang masyadong pera.. nakakahanap ng tunay na kaibigan.. ako din and i've got 4 :)

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3 weeks ago

It's hard to find these people but if you already have, you're blessed to have one. You don't need many friends if they're only fake. Just one who's loyal and faithful and you're good to go. ❤

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3 weeks ago

yep... having many fake friends is useless.

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3 weeks ago

Tama po sobrang swerte mo po kapag nakita/nahanap mo po iyan sa isang kaibigan. Sobrang mahirap po talaga makahanap ng totoong kaibigan sa ngayon, yung tipong nagpapakatotoo/totoong tao talaga sya pagdating sayo. Kaya pag meron kang kaibigan na lahat ng katangian po na yan ay meron dapat ay ingatan mo po sya ng mabuti.

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3 weeks ago

sobra... lalo na yung kaibigan na andyan through thick and thin... and yung ikocorrect ka

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3 weeks ago

Ang sarap sa feelings pag may ganitong set of friend ka ii. Hays! 🥰 Yung kaya kang icorrect, the one that will always be there for you, supports your success. But before you have these kind of circle, kailangan din na at least one of these traits ee meron tayo. Para mainvite natin yung same energy ng good friendship. 💗

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3 weeks ago

yep... you must be that kind of person to have that kind of person in your life... hindi din sya one way lang :)

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3 weeks ago

True ate. We need to be good as well.

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3 weeks ago

Siguro iyan sis na 5 classes of people ay nakita kona sa iisang tao lang yan yung npakaimportante na tao sa akin ngayon halos sakanya na lahat, kahit na madami akong kamalian at pangit na ugali anjan parin siya. Wala din kming sekreto yun din ang gusto ko yung wala kaming lihiman, at ang pinaka gusto ko sakanya ay hindi niya ko kinukonsinte talagng tinatama niya yung maling nagawa ko..

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3 weeks ago

I believe I'm in the category of those that tell the truth always.

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3 weeks ago

then your friends must be lucky to have you

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3 weeks ago

All those characteristics in one person is the best person there is :D

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3 weeks ago

true! i know you have that kinds of person in your circle :)

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3 weeks ago

It's very rare to see people having all those traits, but such people exist.

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3 weeks ago

they do exist especially if you have those qualities in you too

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3 weeks ago

Many people don't like to hear the truth. But it's something I've always valued. I like to hear the truth and tell it. And you are very right. Those classes of people you mention are the ones we have to keep in our lives and in our hearts. I hope you keep feeling better. Abrazos amiga!

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3 weeks ago

yep... let's always value them and keep them... and I think you fall on one of those classes, that's why I'm keeping you. Abrazos amiga!!!

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3 weeks ago

I'm keeping you too, my dear! Love you ♡

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3 weeks ago

love you too the moon my soul sister in another country xoxo

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3 weeks ago

There are people today who call themselves your friends. But when you go through a difficult situation, they abandon you. They just disappear from the face of the earth. I have had some like that, so later I reconsidered their friendship, and to a limit. I can't stand those who have double standards.

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3 weeks ago

same here.. i don't have time for those people who do have double standards. i can say I'm lucky with the friends that I have. thanks infinity!

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3 weeks ago

For nothing friend. I invite you to a dynamic that I did in my last article. I'd like to see how you would end that story. A huge virtual friend hug.

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3 weeks ago

The family always seeks to guide us on the right path and correct when it is wrong and efforts are appreciated because they are family, but there are friendships that turn out to be harmful and every time they can make you feel bad they do it, without a doubt that type of people is it is preferable not to have them in our lives.

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3 weeks ago

yep.. there are people who will passed by in our life that are really meant to just passed by. :)

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3 weeks ago

I am with you on all of those. They are the people we must always keep close. I want people who correct me, tell me the truth no matter how it may hurt, those who stand by through thick or thin and those who value our well-being. They are the best people we must not take for granted.

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3 weeks ago

yep.. and let's be thankful if we have them in our life. i know you have farmboy with all those qualities :)

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3 weeks ago

True that sis. Haha, he lies at times :D

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3 weeks ago

hahaha normal na ata yun lol

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3 weeks ago

I have my family to does all of it. Sometimes I seldom told the truth and seldom be corrected. But over all they worry about me and they are with me through good times and bad. Friends, I'm not blessed in that area. As far as I can remember, they only come into me if they have something for me to do for them.

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3 weeks ago

what's important is you do have your family with you :)

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3 weeks ago

Very good article, we have all kinds of people, the difficult thing is to catalog them in the corresponding place. I hope you continue to improve your health

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3 weeks ago

that's true identifying where they fall is a bit hard. yep.. two more days and my quarantined day are over. I'm recovering well thanks for checking :)

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3 weeks ago

you're so lucky and bless if you have these kinds of people around you, kasi sobrang rare an makahanap ng ganitong klaseng mga tao :>

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3 weeks ago

yep.. and I'm thankful i have that kind of friend :)

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3 weeks ago

Those that correct you

This kind of friend sana na di magdadalwang isip na isampak sakin ang katotohanan, yong kung alin ba ang tama or kung tama paba ang ginagawa ko. Yo