I Love Cuddling Humans But

Cuddles are the sweetest, especially with your love ones. It's a way of expressing how much you love them or way of distressing ourselves - to me, it is like that. Sometimes when I'm too stressed and tired, I'll cuddled my daughter. I felt so relieved and lightened when she cuddles with me, especially exchanging sweet words like “I love you mom!” and of course I love her more.

As for my partner he's not always around with us, 3 or four months is longer times that he stays with us due to his job nature. He's a sailor and once he's being lined up, he'll leave us for work. It wasn't easy being in a long distance relationship but I got used to it already. So, whenever he's with us we're always sweet together, we do quarrel at times but we resolve it immediately as we don't want to waste our time together for a nonsense arguments. The three of us are sweet, we always cuddled. My daughter loves it so much, I can feel her happiness that the three of us love each other. This is something that I am thankful and feeling bless, I might not have the love I ever wanted from my blood related families, my own family are sweet.

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I just hope when our daughter grows up she'll still cuddle with us like how we used to, we know when kids starting to grow they'll have their own world and cuddling with parents sounds cringe to most of the teens - well, not all but mostly. I seldom see teens cuddling with parents, so I hope our daughter won't forget it when she grows up as it feels so lovely when a family cuddling each other.

I love cuddling humans but I can't stand it for longer times

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Yeah, sure I do love cuddles but I can't stand it for long. It's weird coz I prefer to cuddle stuff toys, teddy bears or hotdog pillows or pillows than cuddling my partner until morning.

I can't sleep when my daughter and partner lay their bodies on me, both of them are warm blooded. If we cuddle for longer times, they'll sweat.

Maybe I am really used to being alone that having warm bodies lays on my body is something I can't get used to it.

Aside from it's too hot, I felt itchiness everywhere. When my partner just hug me at my back, I can't sleep as I keep itching everywhere. I dunno why it is like that so I end up telling him not to hug me for long as I can't sleep. Sometimes he even teased me “you can't sleep coz you're thinking something beyond hugging” jeez, I'm not horny haha! It's just that I am not really comfortable with it.

I do hug him for an hour or so before we sleep, my daughter too but I can't fall asleep even if I tried to do so. Another thing is that, I am not comfortable feeling the heaviness of my partners shoulder in my body.

Maybe the explanation behind it is that, I am really used sleeping alone - I mean not literally alone now as I have my daughter already, I mean having someone beside me. He's not always with us, so I keep adjusting myself and I can't get used to it at all.

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This is why we have a lot of stuff toys, my partner always gives me one everytime valentine's day comes coz he knows I prefer it over bouquet or chocolates. They're like my babies - was glad when my daughter loves them too. Her dad bought him a lot and to her it's like her pet or babies too - she can't sleep without her favorite stuff toys “Ellie.” It's an elephant stuff toy her dad bought her, she's too fluffy that's why she likes her so much. I on the other hand had a carrot hotdog type pillow that I hugged when I sleep.

While my partner will hug a plain pillow- then we sleep soundly and comfortably - lol.

Cuddles are the best expression of love for me, it's like I am wrapped with security.

I just had the idea to write this one when I read an article, I forgot who was it that she doesn't like teddy bears and Olasquare commented that he's not into it as well but he respect those who like it. I told him it's for cuddling reason why ‘we’ or I like it, then he said her prefers to cuddle warm bodies than teddy bears and this explains why I prefer to cuddle it than humans as I can't stand it for long.

I know I'm weird, as always. This is why we all have different preference as it is according to our comfortability.

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Date Published:

June 26, 2022 (Article #:14)