I lived with my inlaws because my husband is away sailing, and he wanted us with our daughter to be safe and well-taken care of. He doesn't want me having a hard time alone taking care of our dear daughter. Although living with inlaws is not always advisable, but just for now just temporary.
My inlaws are good to me, they treat me like how they treat their own son and loves my daughter very much. I am so thankful to God He gave me good inlaws.
Yesterday my mother in law got into trouble, our neighborhood accused her of gossiping and telling malicious words and degrading one. They were just talking about the development of a certain canal project that already materialized with our other neighbor. They're kinda happy about it, then suddenly after an hour, another neighbor came to our house, shouting at my mother in law comforting that they gossiped about them, saying they are stupid because they already cemented the canal on their lot portion.
The one reported the issue is her sister that was around early '70s in age, saying she heard them talking. We are just wondering she was at the third floor and heard all the conversation despite having hearing problems due to old aging. And because of this they got summoned by our baranggay to fix the issues, they'll have hearings tomorrow.
My mothers-in-law are in the middle of '60s. Imagine their age and still, they got into trouble because of misinformation. I'm not siding my mother in law but our neighbors here are so chismosa, they are fond of talking about other people's lives without minding their own lives. They are really sick-minded people, that's why I seldomly talk to people here so I can avoid stressors.
Here in our country (Philippines), gossiping is very rampant. I myself don't like this kind of nature as it will give headaches and peace of mind is absent. I grew up alone and living my own life without meddling so much to other people, especially fake and backstabber. It's better to be alone than having a company like that.
If only society (people) will just mind their own business maybe, just maybe peace will always be around. Gossiping is such a lousy behavior.
July 7, 2020
My first diary entry 😃
Gossiping really is a bad habit. But accusing is worst. Don't let them get into your mind. Just keep on moving forward.