My Relatives Shows No Respect: Shame For Same.

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I was suddenly woken up at 3:00 PM from my nap. I looked at the people to see if there were any but seems none, and they were still in my uncle's house for sure. I have been tired since early morning we have been working in the preparation of food. Saturday afternoon, we are all that busy. Why? It's my uncle's 7th month of months, but it seems like our relatives are showing their faces.

My aunt, who's the wife of my deceased uncle, was so furious yesterday. She has been trying to call our relatives to come. Is that it been months since our uncle? The sad thing is that no one even confirmed any calls. They seemed busy, and even hours later, they might see the missed calls, but they never dared to call back. So we did all the work, that's not a problem, but I was annoyed that one of my feeling-rich cousins opted to come and visit, so my aunt expected them to go for my uncle.

But rich dudes don't have time for inferior beings. They were just there in their homes and did not even show up just a little bit, and it seems like we cannot reach their standard anymore. I hate that their parent depends on them; they just come for their child's haircut and go to the grocery, and they will need to come back right away.

What a lame excuse. Where was the respect?

And I discovered what they are going through and why their selfless indecent attitude returns. They have been expecting marriage proposals next October 23, and wow, what the guts to tell that. So they will expect that we should also go there home? Hell, that. I am sure my aunt knows what is happening. Next year January, they wish their sons to fly to Japan for some work, the will follows their last born in Taiwan. I am just smiling but deep inside, who cares about that? They come and do not show respect or help.

Sometimes relatives are just relatives, they are not part of the family, and better be just that.

But honestly, I am tired. Luckily, I back up some of my essays for October. I don't mind the rant and attitude of my feeling wealthy relatives. For now, it's for the essays.


[ESSAY 09] Cheating Help Students to Learn?

Cheating is one of the things that people have seen so much as an absurd process, and there are times that when you visit a child cheats, one of the things you will suspect is that they have nothing in their head; that's why they did the action, but does this happen?

I remember a post on social media about the child's cheats, and it was quoted as if the education sectors weren't looking so much at students' grades, they won't have to cheat. I understand the matter, I also cheated on my studies, Código, and everything, and I wasn't caught. That was the most exciting part.

There were chances because children cheated; sometimes, it's because of the pressure. Pressures between the learner and parents, or chances in that pressure of teacher and student, some teacher are quite a terror when it comes to exam the scheme of erasure means wrong, wrong spelling wrong, modified schemes and what so ever, pressure happened and that made student prepare, prepare to fail or prepare to cheats?

The answer to the question, "Cheating help student learn", is no, never. Our students will learn nothing, but being a ninja creates an alibi and all the passive things to excuse. Somehow cheating happened, as to my observation, because of pressure.

If we have the chance to let them take the exams without pressure and think about what happened in their studies when they fail, somehow the learning will happen.

They are sometimes, grading and standardization cause one student to cheat.

[ESSAY 10] Less Homework Will Make Students Better Rounded?

I was still a student in High school when they implemented the "weekend no assignments" where the student shall not be given an assignment at weekends, and weekends will be part of the enjoyment, as they said. But not when the pandemic comes, I think this idea was gone, especially since the start of modular learning. Some needs still to work on their module anytime and even still weekends. Due to the deadline being close, they must finally present all their modules in time.

Now that some are practicing face-to-face, we cannot still remove the weekend loads. Projects, assignments, and some self-learning on the weekdays, even working until dawn to finish the activity.

Less homework helps, especially for those years under the pressure book manual, who have something more to do, but sometimes we cannot change the system. When I met graduating students, most had the proper time to work overtime and over weekends for their thesis and research.

It's acceptable that the more you delay, the more it's getting hard.

Still, we are not only battling the virus but the new standard system, not only students but the burden more to the teacher who was presently needed to check and have some work even at weekends also to finish their reports.

The student will be better rounded, but sometimes a student needs to be responsible too. If they don't want to have the overload on weekdays and be free for what leisure they want, then do their projects and work ahead of weekdays. Still, the battle against the virus doesn't yet finish.

Thanks for reading...

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Kaya ako di ako mahilig maki close sa mga relatives ko eh, feeling ko mas ibang tao tlga sila kesa don sa mga nakakausap ko or close friends ba.

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1 year ago

Buti at di sila namalot ng pagkain. Hahaha! Kaloka.

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1 year ago

Ay haha, aba meron an merong scene na ganyan haha, pero ayus lang kaysa naman masayang ba whaha

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1 year ago

Buti at di sila namalot ng pagkain. Hahaha! Kaloka.

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1 year ago

We all have those kinds of relatives. We just have to accept that they are that way. They act like that so it would be easy for us to go on in life. No hard feelings.

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1 year ago

Haha see daming toxic na kamag-anak sa philippines whahaha

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1 year ago

Hahha nako yang mga kamag-anak na ganyan. Di nalang sabihin na di makakapunta eme isang call o text nalang naman ngayon.

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1 year ago

Kaya nga eh, even just notice lang di yung umuwi nga sa baarangay namin di man lang bumisita nasa bahay lang nila.

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1 year ago

Iniisip ko na nga lang na baka yung kamag anak mo na yan kamag anak talaga ng kamag anak ko. Mga kamag anak sila! Pashnea! 😂

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1 year ago

Ay hutek, ang dami nilang ka ugali sa Pilipinas hahaha, sana tumagal pa hininga nila haha

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1 year ago

Hindi ko pa natry magkodigo tuwing F2F exam haha. Sa amin naman hindi busy tuwing wed and thurs pero kapag friday to sunday busy ako tulad ngayon. Daming gagawin hayst

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1 year ago

Not to recommend uy, haha ganawa ko yun kasi ang hirap talaga ng exam na yun whaha

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1 year ago

Never tried codigo but team work with a friend yes hahah

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1 year ago

Cheatmate ba? aba ako din haha ang saya lang alalahanin ang mga sandali wahaha

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1 year ago

Buti nga ngayon wala masyado hm sa weekend.. Unlike dati lagi workloads.. Pero about cheating . it will only push students to cheat more and don't study

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1 year ago

Yeah now wala kasi friday ang start ng weekends dito ng mga students. I also agreed with that, somehow mas magiging comfortable lang sila to cheat.

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1 year ago

Nyii. Hindi maganda ang ganyang mga relatives bro. Dapat ahead of time, nag sasabi na agad whether they will come or not. Ayoko pa naman nung nagagahol sa oras dahil daming bibilhin at lulutuin.

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1 year ago

True, nakakainis lang kasi pinaghandaan talaga sila as in we expected na pay sila ng respect to our beloved uncle huhu.

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1 year ago

I'm just glad that there's no homework at weekends. And even homework from Monday to Thursday sometimes I complain because they've been in school the whole day. Is it not enough? But I do understand. And it's also a way for the kids to have some bonding with their parents. But lol my Jigz hates it. 🤣

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1 year ago

haha exact point, sometimes students needs a break from everything under school enviroment din minsan, enjoyes the vibes and do thier hobbies too.

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1 year ago

I agree with your point of view that sometimes relative are just relative they are not like a family Nowadays no one want to think about other whatever it relative or other out of family

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