My mom always says: a mother who chooses to deal with her children with negative words should be prepared for future downfall because negative words don't take effect instantly.
Sometimes we say things to cover up our wrongdoing sometimes we lie about things that doesn't worth it and in the process of doing these things we say negative words into our lives.
For instance, a girl that was supposed to be in the church by 8:00am for Sunday school service and went around 9:30am because she was busy with some unnecessary things, when she get there pastor asked sister Folake why are you late today again and then she opened her mouth and said: "pastor am so sorry my phone fell inside water as I woke up this morning so I quickly rush to the engineer to repair it for me" meanwhile nothing happened to her but why can't she just say the truth and be free then after service that she has forgotten her lies on getting home her phone finally swim inside a tank full of what now she can't call the pastor and tell him it is her lie this morning that makes her phone to swim in the afternoon.
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Sometimes it is better to say the whole truth than to say negative things that might affect us at the end of the day, some mothers don't even seem to see negative words as a bad thing and I have lived with one of them in my former apartment.
Here is the story
When I was still living in face me I face you(a single room) if you are from Nigeria you will understand what I mean, I came back from work in the morning so tired because I did night shift and I couldn't do anything than to just sleep straight away from my sleep I was just hearing someone cursing (negative words) and I woke up due to the noise then went outside only to find out that it is a mother talking to her daughter with negative words.
Then I move closer to ask her(mother) what the girl did to deserve these deep negative words this early morning and then she said: aunty can you imagine this girl I gave her money to buy something(fish) for me from a particular person at the market and then she went to buy from someone else now see how small the fish looks now eh.
I was like is that all she did and you rain these deep negative words on her? Then I go hmmm am short of words ma but deep within me I couldn't say what came into my mind to her but then I told her never to use negative words on her children again because it won't affect them now but it will affect them in the future and then it won't be very easy to trace where the cause is coming from meanwhile children are very funny in the aspect of taking after bad side of their parents once parents are used to negative words towards them they will also be used to it even among their mates.
Effects of negative words
It draws back good things for someone.
It brings a step back into someone's life.
It reduces good luck for someone
It affects someone's Future.
It affects the good side of someone's life etc.
Can you imagine a girl that her own mother has said negative words into her life when she was a child that she will never make it can such a girl be prospered in her life?
Or a boy that his mother or father that said negative words into his life that all the bad thing he is doing all his children will do it back to him won't such child face so much in the future with his children as well? Sometimes kids make us angry and people make us angry too but we should learn how to control our mouths and mind from saying negative words towards them.
And this is common among mothers meanwhile we all know that the effect of mothers words in child's life is very strong so as a mother we shouldn't utter negative words into our children's life because it won't show face now until when they are grown it will now start to draw them back from moving forward in life negative words doesn't act instantly it will always wait until the day you are supposed to do great things then it will now affect the thing you are to do peacefully.
Conclusion
Never say negative words into your children's life for it is going to affect their future.
Never allow anyone to say negative words into your life as well because you don't know the kind of angel moving around during that time.
Negative words have nothing to offer someone's life than destruction and am sure we all don't want destruction in our lives.
Thanks for reading.
Yes, that's true. When we are angry, we tend to say things we don't think about or we don't really mean that could hurt other people's feelings. That will matter to them so we should be vigilant with the words we say because it is sharper than a knife and it will go directly to someone's heart.