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Thank God for another beautiful week that starts today, I pray this week favor us all in Jesus' name, and before I continue with my story for today let me make use of this opportunity to thank my beautiful sponsor @Olasquare for the sponsorship renewal I really appreciate your support and to all of my sponsors too.

Before you choose who to spend the rest of your life with someone make sure the person is worth it and check if he or she is compatible with you because I know some people just want to tie the knot because all of their friends have done it meanwhile marriage is not all about what people are doing because it's a lifetime contract.

Because some don't even care if they are compatible or not what they want is just to be in a relationship and then rush into the marriage then later in the future they will start having issues in the family because of the little things they suppose to have checked before settling for that person.

Just like a story of a young lady who ends up being a single mother because she wasn't patient enough to check if the guy she fell in love with is compatible with her as a future husband, this lady has been looking for a husband for a very long time but she couldn't find herself one she even try to keep a relationship but it doesn't work out and then she decided to take any available flight since she's 35years already.

One day her neighbor invited her to their church night vigil and she went because she believes that there are always good men in the church her prediction was right to some extent because some guys asked her out in the church and she picked one out of them but instead of taking her time to see if this guy in question is good for her she concluded that since they met in the church they are perfectly ok for each other.

After one week they had known each other, the lady told the guy to come and meet her friends but because this guy is not interested in settling down with her, he didn't follow her because he doesn't want her friends to know him but then he kept asking why the rush then she told him there is no time to waste because she's old already,

One day this lady told him that he need to see her parents because she can not be dating someone people don't know and the guy doesn't want to hurt her feelings so he followed her to see her parents when she didn't give him rest of mind at least that will make her have rest of mind a little and it will make her think he loves her.

It was there at the lady's house she told him that she was pregnant for him and that is why she wanted him to come and meet her parents, this guy was shocked because he wasn't expecting that but he didn't say a word to her and when they got back home which is the lady's apartment he then asked why did she get pregnant because the relationship is just two months.

The lady said she likes him and she knows that he likes her too so why waste time before this guy could realize it they have already gotten married because the lady's parents followed what their daughter told them to rush him so that he can marry her, the guy didn't know what to do so he just let them do whatever they want.

After 1 year the baby they both had started having issues there is no week they don't take him to the hospital without knowing what the nature of his sickness but the doctor later run a test for both the mother and the father and then told them they are both AS which means they are not supposed to get married because their children will have health issues.

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If this lady has checked if they are compatible medically for the future she wouldn't end up being a single mother meanwhile, this boy in question doesn't enjoy coming to life because he has so many health issues because of the blood group of his mother and his mother.

There are lots of things to check before rushing into a lifetime commitment called marriage e.g.

Blood group

Genotype

Health

Character. Etc

Because if you are compatible medically does he or she has a good character you can cope with?

Despite the advice here and there all over the social media, some ladies are still planning on how to rush into marriage this coming weekend, I still read one last night who finds out that she and her fiance can't marry because of the genotype meanwhile wedding invitation is out already.

Be careful and don't always be in a rush because you are old or because some of your friends have done what you couldn't there is always time for everything and never rush into anything called marriage because if you rush in you might end up rushing out just like the story up there.

Thanks for reading.

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Relationship doesn't require rush, we must know what we are getting into else it would be really disastrous.

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2 months ago

That just it but some people choose not to care and at the end of everything they will end up alone

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This is why it is important partners must take time checking their health status so they won't use their own to implicate an innocent child that should have come to life to enjoy. Also, this would be the end result once stuff like this happens. Health status is very important to know if both are compatible and more so, taking it to God before marrying each other because i also believe if God had hands in their marriage, no matter their health status, things would be fine.

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2 months ago

Yes you are absolutely right with God all things are possible even the bad health is nothing when God is involved

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