Don't hold it back it's in the past mow

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Happy weekend to you all my beautiful people all over the world how are you all doing? I couldn't post yesterday because the network was down due to the heavy rain that we had yesterday I pray such doesn't happen again because it was so scary.

We all have had a past we don't want to remember, something that breaks our hearts when we look back at it. Those heartbroken moments weren't there to break us down, they were part of our life journey. They were there for us to understand the value of things in the future.

These individual past of ours are personal teachers but we look at them from a different perspective. Many hold it tight, some fix their eyes, knowledge, and heart on it and it prevented them from seeing what is ahead.

I am not fond of calling the past failure but I would rather refer to it as a lesson because it must have taught us one or two things. Holding on to the past has made so many remain at that spot they have been meanwhile they thought that's the best for them forgetting that if you don't let go of the past you can't get hold of the future.

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Imagine a man who invested wrongly and lost almost everything he had, he was too quick to invest and he never cared to make his findings before putting his money. He lost everything, does that mean he shouldn't engage in any investment again? No...

It means he has to make more findings about things he is to invest on in the future.

A man whose marriage doesn't work out because he wasn't lucky to have a good woman shouldn't give up on marriage it means he has to do his findings and know the lady well before jumping into another marriage.

A student who failed an exam will understand that he/she needs to read more and prepare very well to rewrite the exam in the future.

These pasts are teachers but they try to make us understand things the hard way when we fail to learn easily. Allowing the past to have a terrible effect on the future is something we shouldn't allow just like I said before you should learn how to let it go so that you can go to the next level in life but it doesn't mean you will forget but don't hold it back just let it go so that is won't affect your future.

Look at the examples I stated above, even every great inventor has several past which should have made them stop but they kept on pressing and working hard to make their dreams become reality if they give up then they have failed.

Because you had a bad relationship in the past does not mean you won't have another in the future but it means you have to be wise about it this time around. 

That's is exactly the purpose of the past, it helps you to know that you have made a wrong choice a wrong move, or a wrong decision the past is also an experience which they say is the best teacher. It helps you become a better decision-maker, it makes you a leader who guides with his/her experience.

All this will only be possible if you don't live in the guilt of the past, your future will be bright if you let go of your bad experience and if you make use of what you learn wisely your past mustn't be an excuse in the future. It should be an inspiration not to you alone but to everyone who cares to listen as well. 

Don't let the past hold you down because it's in the past and it will never repeat itself unless you don't learn from it, the future is what you should be thinking of not what has passed.

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