When we are young we don't know what we are doing unless tragedy strucks. That tragedy sometimes is universe telling you to adjust your maps and compass. It could be a good or bad event. And you realize what life is about from that point onwards. Being a single person, I feel such events every now and then. People mistake single life as a worst one because they are used to live in restrains of people. If you want to be a strong person, learn to adjust your map and compass without people. That practice would give you a lot stronger heart and mind. Do you solve your problems on your own? or you require constant navigation in life?