I think every dream which is beyond our control has few phases. It starts with "I wish I could have _____". Then it moves to "I am working so that I can have _______". Sometimes it moves to "I tried but I could not get _______". And finally it reaches to "It does not matter anymore that I didn't get _____". Not everything in this world we are supposed to earn or acquire. Sometimes we have to make peace with things we can't have and let others have it. We have to go after what is meant for us. I guess god or maybe this universe wants us things we deserve and not what we want. What's your observation?