I am not a mother, nor I have kids of my own in any way so I can't view social problems with same shoes so looking at some of the social problems in that context I wonder how those problems are solved. So I came across this question. How do you handle these type of kids and parents? 1. Parents controlling children, spoiling them in process and then expecting them to perform when they get old. It's like dictatorship leading to old age home setup. Do you think parents were being fair to kids if they follow this process. 2. Second case where parents don't control children but children become dependent and spoiled in such way that they don't become financially independent and remain lazy. Which leads to parents having more problem during the old age. Situation 1 seems toxic for kids but safe for parents and situation 2 sounds toxic for parents good for kids isn't it? Do you think both situations are health or unhealthy? What's your opinion on these type of family models? Image Credit: https://diversewoodworking.com/