How bad do you want it? In a quest to achieve growth, I put myself in the hustle mode. Now I want to be successful bad enough that I can ignore my failures and loss. If you want to go on journey of growth, you have to let go of things. You have to want those things badly or else you dont take efforts to get them. You need to want it bad enough. If you don't want it bad enough, you don't get those things. If you want something with high priority, you take steps to get it.