When we can't think of the solution, we get into the loop of fear. And we don't understand how to come out of that. So the fear needs to be pushed in order to move ahead. Sometimes we can do lot better when we know pushing fear is the only way out. I have written an article to cover this topic, you may want to read :) Check out the article: https://hive.blog/hive-150329/@esmeesmith/if-you-don-t-push-fear-pushes-you