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May 27th, 2022.

The world children's day. A day to celebrate and appreciate our children and all the children around us.

To all the children out there: "Happy children's day," wishing you more of this day, I'm sure you had lots of fun. Lol, those days when I was still a child, I always look forward to eating rice and chicken in school or in church, the gifts and the dresses. I participated in children's day activities; like choreography, drama, choir ministration, memory verse and the likes. It was fun. Infact, being a child is fun, they deserve to be celebrated especially because they'll soon grow up to face what we; adults are facing.

Sighs...

We thank God for growth.

Without further ado, let's delve into today's blog topic.

So for today's blog, I'll be writing a story, a story that'll have a question at the end. I'll love for my dearest readers to air their views.

Some people, due to either their past experiences or insecurities; don't trust their partners easily and because of this lack of trust they have, they put their partners to a test.

For some, they trust their partners so much and put them to some kind of test to test their faithfulness and probably boast to their friends about how great their partners are.

I actually did this or something similar when I was plurally single.

But the question is: "is it actually right or proper to do such?."

The Story.

There were two lovers who loved themselves dearly, the female was named "Clara" and the male was "Paul." These two had been dating ever since their secondary school years, they promised themselves to get married once they were done with their education and when they are fully settled.

Oh! How rosy it was, Clara was undoubtedly a gorgeous and everyone's wannabe with kind of lady. She was most men choice. There was this time these lovers went to the mall to get some things, on their way out, a guy who drove a better looking posh car; walked up to Clara to ask for her digit. She smiled and politely turned him down, she boldly and happily told him she was taken and her boyfriend was the one dropping off things in the boot. The boy had tried cajoling her, but she had bluntly refused.

The rate at which Clara turned almost every guy down, both in Paul's presence and in his absence, made Paul trust her more. He could boldly beat his chest and say: "No!, Clara can never cheat on me, even if I'm far away or out of the country for years, my baby would never betray our love."

That was how Paul raised his shoulders whenever his friends dared to compare his beloved Clara to the "all girls are the same" phrase.

Paul: Not my baby girl, my baby girl can never do it. You can't even get her number and you're here; talking about getting her heart. Clara is not those regular type of girls ooh. My baby is 100% loyal.

(After Paul said this during one of his regular Hangouts with the guys, one of his friends; named Kelvin, stood up boldly and told Paul that he'll get his girl, Paul first eyed him from head to toes and bursted out into some sort of laughter, the other friends urged Paul and told Paul to try Kelvin, that if Kelvin of all people didn't get Clara, then they'll accept that Clara is different from other girls).

Paul: (thinks for awhile) good deal, not a bad idea, fine...the deal is on, I'll give you two months to accomplish this. I'll be away for two months and I'll leave you alone to try your luck. (He said hysterically and laughed once more, he dropped some money on the table and told his friend that he'll be given more if Clara falls).

Hmmm, what are my readers thinking?. Lol, I know already, you've all gotten the gist, so let's not prolong this further.

Kelvin shot his shots, and as usual, Clara didn't catch those shots at first, unfortunately for Paul, Kelvin got to know things that Clara loved so much, things that Paul; who knew her for years had no idea of or prolly neglected.

The goodnews was that most of what Clara liked was practically what Kelvin fancied. There grew a certain chemistry as Kelvin kept helping Clara attain her career goals. After a month, Kelvin grew to love Clara and vice versa. Clara suddenly became not too interested in Paul anymore, she became confused as to what or who she really wanted.

Here's Paul, who she had been with for years, who she had always thought she was connected to, and here's Kelvin who she met a month back and it looks like she has known him for years.

Kelvin also would never had thought that he would find love with Clara. He never would have thought that Clara would make him love again.

Paul was left in the air, well Paul lost Clara to Kelvin. There was a little rift between Clara and Kelvin when she found out that the foundation of their friendship was built on lies, this was later settled and trust me; Clara didn't take it likely with Paul when she found out that he had put her to a test.

Would you blame Paul for putting Clara to a test?

Would you blame Clara for not passing the test and falling in love with Kelvin?

Would you blame Kelvin for falling in love with Clara instead of focusing on the bet?

Or, would you rather blame love?

Personally, I feel Paul should never had put Clara to a test, your friends shouldn't make you do things especially when it concerns your love life, it's so wrong to use your friend or anybody to test your lover.

Clara is human, I guess Paul was used as a tool to connect her to her soulmate. She fell for Kelvin, only because she felt a certain way with him, a way she had never felt since all the years she had been with Paul.

Disclaimer: That Clara fell for Paul, doesn't mean that what the boys debated on Is actually true, or that all girls are the same...no, quite far from it. It is what it is. Love happened.

I stand to be corrected though, but 90% of people who used their friends or someone else to test their lovers; ended up loosing their lovers to them.

Till we meet again in my next article and in yours.

Thanks for reading.

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This remnds me to another thing really similar: When people are seeing a men and women in relationship there is a kind of jealousy so it is common they invent some stories and saying to the men or women to go to the test part or even directly trying to getting an answer from other partner for something that did never happens. This is attitude of people sadly.

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1 year ago

Hi darling. Definitely Paul is wrong. how he loves, makes his girlfriend, whom he calls my heart, a subject of argument. Would you blame Paul for testing Clara? yes. my faults. Paul deserved it. for getting the kelvin on the gas. Will you blame Clara for failing the test and falling in love with Kelvin? No . I do not blame. Kelvin really fell in love . this was something she didn't expect

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1 year ago

Wow! A really and indeed brilliant comment, thanks for analyzing your reply. Exactly! Paul was totally and completely wrong.

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1 year ago

thank you so much for appreciating me. Always be happy

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1 year ago

In the school time I felt shy to walk with girls. But now I can do it easily . Every boys should support a girl.

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1 year ago

LMAO. Make all of them get out abeg. We don't choose who we love they say and the heart wants what it wants. It could be that she found love with Kelvin and wasn't necessarily in love with Paul.

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Ahh! Aimure, no be so ooh, this vawulence is too much. ๐Ÿ˜‚

Uhhhm ๐Ÿค” "the heart wants what it wants" you're right, we don't choose, I guess love just happened.

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1 year ago

Why would Paul set Clara up like that, for me Paul was wrong .. truth is you can train you goat not to eat your vegetables but that doesnโ€™t mean you should keep vegetables around it. Paul caused the whole thing by allowing kelvin try a girl that he loved just because his friends said some stupid things.

Boys are stupid everyone knows that ๐Ÿ˜‚

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1 year ago

Uhhm, nice proverb there, you're right, lol, Kelvin was the vegetable. Yes! Paul was wrong, thanks for airing your view.

Aaah, lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

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1 year ago

hahaha are you sure about that

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1 year ago

Paul should be blamed for this, he placed his fiance on a bet forgetting that anybody can change the other way. It isn't good to test out one's lover with other guys, because the results might be painful, you might lose her just like that.

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1 year ago

Wow! Exactly dear, it isn't good at all. Thanks for airing your view dearest friend.

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1 year ago

It was a very sad story, my dear Ella. I also think Paul should never have tried Clara. No matter how much we trust our partner, we should always take care of our love and relationship.

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1 year ago

Brilliant, this is just the plain truth my dearest friend, thanks for airing your views dear.

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1 year ago

Hmm well i also agree with your answer, i think it's paul fault, he shouldn't have used his friend for testing his love, but i think its a little bit Clara's mistake also, she should be mature enough to not be fooled like this in the name of love.

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Awwwwwn, thanks so much for airing your views dear friend. You're right, Paul was definitely at fault. Uhhhm, Clara's case might actually be different especially because we can't blame love

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1 year ago

Make no girl sha use another girl test me, it something I would never do, it wrong in the first place, we are all human, it like planning for someone to fail, if anything happens, it the fault of the other person that is setting shits up

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1 year ago

Uhhhm, ๐Ÿค” from this, it means Paul was at fault. Lol, ๐Ÿ˜‚ fash, it means if it happens you'll fall!, I get this though, you're right, it's so wrong to test another person. Thanks for airing your views Fash.

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1 year ago

I no go fall, but if I find out its a test, I go fall intentionally๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

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1 year ago

happy children's day hopefully with this we must pay attention to the lives of children and always look after and protect them.

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Thanks rean, yes ooh! We would look after and protect them.

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In the first place, the friends should not provoke him like that. And Paul saying yes and putting his girl on a test is a already a no for me. Of course, who wouldn't fall in love with someone who's comfortable with you and shows care for two months, right?

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Uhhm, you're right dear Charming. His friends should never had provoked him and this is true, Paul should never had accepted to put his girl on a test.

Yes dear, right. Thanks so much for airing your view.

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1 year ago

People should learn that this testing thing never works, they are all at fault to me

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1 year ago

Aaah!! Lol, all of them!! Not even Clara is spared. ๐Ÿ˜‚ Thanks for airing your view dearest friend.

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1 year ago

It's so wrong for Paul to put her girlfriend to test, and it's actually wrong for Kelvin to place a bet on getting his friend's girl.

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Yes dear, in most cases, putting one's relationship to a test never ends well. Thanks for airing your view dear friend.

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1 year ago

You are welcome ๐Ÿ˜Š

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1 year ago

I will surely blame Paul, I wouldn't advise anyone to place a bet on their lover, their trust should be kept between them and not with anyone. Kelvin has no-fault, if Paul has refused, it wouldn't have happened.

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1 year ago

Hmmm, incredible dear.... Paul should never had put his relationship on the edge.

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1 year ago

You are correct because no matter how long your relationship are, if you are not destined for each other, your relationship will be broken, like Paul he may be the bridge so that Clara and Kelvin meet each other..

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Yes ooh dearest Dawn, no matter how long, two hearts that are not meant to be might never be.

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1 year ago

Yes, because God has a better plan for us..

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1 year ago

I will go for clara's side because how she responded was totally natural...A mankind is by nature very flexible....

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Wow! You're right dear Gully, mankind by nature is flexible, this means Clara wasn't really wrong.

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1 year ago

I think we should not put anyone's in test coz we are human beings we can make mistake at anytime. We can slipped away from our regular path by any glory at other path. So just believe in your love and never put your love in any kind of test this will hurt you and your partner as well.

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1 year ago

Uhhhm, nice words dear Tanian, it's not good to put anyone in a test. I guess Paul was wrong.

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1 year ago

Firstly, betting on someone is off the league for me, I trust her but I can't bet for her because I am not with her 24/7, humans change and sometimes the ones we love most will eventually leave. That's just life. ๐Ÿ™‚

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Yes Coga, betting shouldn't have been done, but then...lol, life could be funny at times

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