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The Phase of Transitioning

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As we enter the adult stage, it is very evident that we experience changes not just in our physical body itself but in the way we perceive things. This is analogical with the butterflies’ process of transformation, or what we call the metamorphosis, wherein they become butterflies, leaving the caterpillar and pupa stage.

Though we can all agree that all of us grow old, not all grow up or mature in a split second. Everything takes time, and that still goes the same for maturity.

In our bodies we experience changes like deep voice, enlarged breasts, broad shoulders, broad hips, but I think the most awkward part was the pubic hair. We all experience this, unless of course, if you have Alexandria genesis, then you are an exception, but in normal situations we get to have that as we age, and some of us find it icky, especially when this is paired with body odor and the monthly period for females.

Hence, this requires proper hygiene and nutrition. Eating the right amount and type of food as well as getting enough rest can help you during this transition. Mood swings are also present, so it is safe to manage your emotions well. Practicing meditation can help.

As we grow old, we also become exposed to an environment that unfolds and becomes more real and challenging through time. We encounter hardships, rejections, failure, and anxieties. We reeks of alcohol and vices, thinking that we are already adults and we are accepted to do those things.

In my opinion, that is still void and invalid as alcohol is still dangerous. There is no justification for how old you are; alcohol is dangerous for all ages. That is the reason why advertisements keep on posting the warning ‘Drink Responsibly’.

Too much alcohol can lead to unexpected things, most of the time negative ones, like, for example, if you’re drunk enough you might say things you didn’t mean that could damage the feelings of others.

These unconscious behaviors can trigger emotional stress, but there are times that even though we’re conscious, we behave differently, we see things differently, and we decide based on either our feelings or logic.

This is because we are already adults, and adults' mindset when they grow up is different than that of a child. Adults know what’s more sensible, practical, and safe rather than what's convenient.

When we aged, we also felt the need to become responsible and independent, like we don’t want to be a burden, so we carry burdens. This is a common situation for most adults, like when they enter the stage, they’re conscious of their contribution to the household and feel useless when they see that they’re not useful enough.

Though our parents do not pressure us to carry the whole family, we insist on being the foundation of it. When we fail, we become very disappointed in ourselves, which is very wrong. The mindset that those who contribute money are the only thing that is useful is wrong.

Money is not the only thing that keeps the family running. If you feel you’re not useful enough, then find something useful and serve that purpose.

The key is to be observant of what is needed or what is lacking and find a way to address that gap. In doing this, you must also learn to accept that you’re nothing, so you can think—you can push yourself to be something. Research Spend your time researching things.

You might feel that something is wrong, but you might find out that this is just normal. The saying, what you don’t know won’t hurt you, is not applicable in all situations. Learn to unfold things and design them in your own phase so you can adapt easily.

Most of all, pray. Only God can help you, so learn to ask for his help.

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The transition period is the period that all humans have been waiting for, where humans become adults in time, but not a few of them are old but have the same mindset as a child. ha ha ha

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