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We are told that failure is not bad, that it is a lesson in our life that helps us learn, improve and evolve. We think that next time we will not make the same mistake, everything will be better.
Always to be successful, we usually fail before, it is difficult to get everything right the first time, that is luck, or having a great talent already developed long ago and a lot of preparation that allows you to get there, but it also takes effort to maintain that fortunate situation.
But what happens when you fail and fail again?
You try again. Yes. You maintain the illusion and hope, you are not influenced by what happened, you cannot repeat the same thing again, I have already learned this time. But not.
It happens again, something else happens, but everything goes wrong again in the end. Another failure that you accumulate in your backpack, for the better, to learn the lesson, but also for the worse, because those bitter moments weigh heavily on the backpack and on the mind, and also on the soul.
What is the limit of failures? I do not know if there is a limit beyond which it is difficult to get back up. Possibly you have no other choice, you try again but with a different attitude, possibly with undermined self-esteem and weaker, sadder self-confidence. It builds up so much in your past already full of disappointments that it makes you crawl without the same enthusiasm at once.
Each new opportunity is accompanied by your fears and many "but" "and if ..." you no longer trust or trust yourself, or your abilities. You know that even if you go with everything, and give the most of what you have, it never seems to be enough ...
Will the day of success come or have we already entered a vicious cycle? Are we keeping hope? Despite what it weighs, whatever happens, do we still trust ourselves?
It seems that there is no other. The accumulation of failures at the end hurts, no matter what life coaching tell you now, but we have to be stronger to carry all that and move on. We may have a bad day, but to persevere without giving up, we have to see it as our great success.

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We can't be successful if we don't fail even if it is one time.nobody is perfect to not make mistakes and every successful person has once failed. When we fail,we get up and when we fail again we try proofing ourself to the world out there and show them the best in us. As u have said that when u fail across limits then u have to change ur attitude about wat u are failing and think positively ahead of you .

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Yes we need to change something we cannot do the same thing if we want different results, but we have to trying again, to show we can as you also have said too. Thanks!

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