1) Be A Fun Conversationalist
Women are interested in guys who can actually talk about something in-depth.
It doesn’t matter if you’re into movies, video games, sports, politics, or food – the point is to have topics in your arsenal that you feel comfortable with.
You don’t have to be the smartest guy in the room to be a great conversationalist.
If you have something passionate about (bonus points if she has no idea what it is), share it with her and use it as a conversation point.
It lets her know that you have your own set of interests and hobbies, making you look more interesting.
2) Practice Good Hygiene
Having good hygiene doesn’t mean you have to spend 30 minutes every day blow drying your hair.
Good hygiene can be as simple as brushing your hair, keeping yourself cleanly shaven or trimmed, and styling your hair with wax.
A guy who puts thought into his grooming looks put together and in control of himself. You don’t have to bathe in cologne to be properly groomed.
It’s really all about tidying yourself up and making sure you look presentable.
A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself whether or not you would go into a job interview looking like you do now.
If the answer is no, chances are she won’t be very impressed with your effortless scruffy look either.
3) Wear Clothes That Fit
Looking dapper doesn’t have to be expensive. Forget the advice telling you to shop for new clothes you won’t feel comfortable in.
In fact, you don’t even have to change your current style to look great in clothes.
The most fundamental, and often overlooked thing, about looking sharp is simply getting clothes that fit.
When shopping for shirts, don’t over or underestimate your body size and get ones that fit just right.
How do you know if it’s the right fit? Make sure the shoulder cut on the shirt matches where your actual shoulders are.
When it comes to pants, get something that flatters your body type. If all else fails, you can slip into your comfiest pair of trousers and get it tailored for a better fit.
4) Mind Your Body Language
The first thing anyone will notice about you is your body language: the way you walk into a room or how you interact with the world around you.
Relationship experts even suggest observing a person’s body language to get a pure understanding of someone, because unlike speech, these are supposedly subconscious cues of the body that reveal much about ourselves.
Be aware of your body language and what it communicates.
You can practice with friends and family members and ask how your gestures, posture, stance, and general demeanor reflect who you are.
This will prepare you when you’re finally around the girl that you like.
The secret to sexy body language is to never overcompensate. You can start with practicing better posture and maintaining eye contact when talking to people.
Don’t try to project a “confident stance” – this will only leave you feeling uncomfortable and looking awkward.
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5) Be A Familiar Figure
Human beings like things that are familiar, and that includes the woman you’re interested in.
Be familiar enough that she actually recognizes your presence and notices it when you’re gone.
Proximity creates attraction; just by simply being around someone, you get to spend more time together and learn more about them.
However, don’t be so familiar that she considers you her new best friend. Avoid falling into the friend zone by striking a balance between familiarity and individuality.
6) Keep Things New And Exciting
The one thing that is guaranteed to set you apart from all the other guys is introducing something new to her life.
Maybe there’s a dish in your hometown you can share with her or a great underrated movie she’s never seen.
It doesn’t have to be a romantic adventure – it can be as simple as making an exclusive handshake or telling some inside jokes.
The point is to introduce novelties in your life that will keep you new and exciting.
This will allow you to create little moments together that are just “yours”, and she’ll always have new, fun memories that she will associate with you.
7) Highlight Similarities, Or Challenge Differences
If you like the same things, use that to your advantage, but don’t hide your differences either. Having an opinion is an attractive trait and makes her know you’re not a boring yes man.
If you can tease her about your different tastes and be playful about it, then all the better. This affirms that you are a confident, well-rounded person who isn’t afraid to challenge or be challenged.
No matter how it plays out, you can use both similarities and differences as great conversation points, and even use those as excuses to hang out.
You can see a band you both like or you can either convince her to watch your favorite one. It’s a win-win situation!
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8) Be Nice To Other Women
Women are attracted to men who have respectable, functional relationships with other women.
Guys who have hateful relationships towards their mothers or who always complain about exes are a universal red flag for women.
If you want her to feel safe around you, show her that you’re a nice person to other women, not just with her.
When you’re hanging out around her friends, don’t hesitate to talk about their interests and engage them in friendly conversation.
Hanging out with her older sister or a senior colleague from work? Treat them with the same respect you would treat older women in your life.
When you treat everyone around you nicely, the girl you like will pick up on that (especially if you’re not trying) and see you as a genuinely kind person.
9) Make Your Intentions Clear
PUAs like to talk about the push and pull method, where you rope in a girl with a conversation but push her enough with a backhanded comment or playful joke to make her wonder if you are really attracted to her or not.
Women see through these “techniques” and will often shut you down if you’re trying to overcompensate for your insecurity.
Again, the girl you like is just like any other person you want to be close with – to make it happen, you need to show sincerity.
10) Complement Her Pace
Complementing her pace is all about understanding how she wants to proceed with the courtship, flirtation, or relationship, while introducing your own pace.
If the woman you are interested in likes to take things slow, you don’t necessarily have to move at a glacial pace just to have a chance at one date.
You can ask her out but assure her that you don’t expect anything from the date to keep her at ease.
If you’re interested in a girl who’s into casual flings but you’re the type of guy who is into more serious relationships, you can manage this by hanging out with her sporadically and planning activities you know she would like, without ever making her feel like you’re in a serious, committed relationship.
It’s all about knowing what she likes and meeting halfway without compromising things that are non-negotiable to either of you.
Being the Right Guy: No One Size Fits All
Just because these tips worked on some guys doesn’t mean they’ll work for everyone.
Just as guys are different, women will like different things, and there’s no guarantee that the tips here will work on the girl you like every single time.
The good news is that these tips are geared towards making you a better, more confident gentleman.
So even if you get shot down a couple times, remember that you are creating a better version of yourself that’s a lot more pleasant to be around.
Continue working on yourself and your relationship with others and a lucky girl is bound to pick up on your positive energy and get magnetized by your charm
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