Friends for Benefits

Friends, who are friends where they come from and why we call them friends? is there any thing like true friends or it's just a myth. How We Make Friends We can't live alone that's we share our ideas our feelings and our secrets with someone, some make fun of our ideas or they simply don't care about our feelings that's why we try to ignore them as much as possible. On the other hand there are people who give respect to our ideas and try to motivate us in our life so we assume that we these are the people who can help us when we need them. What We Demand From Our Friends One thing that every one demand from other person is honesty and that is what we demand from our friends. Before making friends we always check whether he/she is honest with us or not and if they pass this litmus paper test of friendship than we make them our friends. If someone try his best to help you in this selfish era than he/she becomes our best friend. What Our Friends Expect From Us They expect the same from us that they offer us honesty and help when they need it badly. We try our best to give the same to our friends what we expect from us because we think that they are the only people in our social group who care for us and if we will loose them then we will become loners. When Reality hits. It hits Hard.! Now its time to face reality if you believe that you have a 100*%* honest friend or your friend is going to help you in bad times then its time to reanalyze the situation. "Do not put all your eggs in one basket". Do not think that your friends will always be there to help they can betray you any time they could show you their true colors to you at any time. If you are optimistic than you will say that no my friend is not like that, that's good for you but the problem is that before getting stabbed in the back everyone says the same thing. How to Deal With Friends Never ever do any favor to your friends by expecting that you will get it back. If you are a kind person than you help your friends in need but you should not sacrifice your time which could be used in other healthy activities for your friends. You should go out with them but you should not let them use you at any cost otherwise you will start hating the whole world because everyone out there is selfish in some way or the other.