How much does it Cost?

Love is a very complicated issue in our society, and has always. I've heard people air different views on what they believe to be love. Each individual has a different perception about what they believe to be love and what it takes to win their love.

Some see it as care and attention, some see it as emotional attachment, some see it as affection and benevolent concern, some see it as merely respect and honor.

So what's your love like?

Is it the constant calls and and messages that blows the sweet soothing wind across your face and leaves you with small cute parting of the lips.

The kind that sends you to sleep like a baby being pampered with the most tender and sweet of words that morphs into a lullaby.

The type that wakes you with beeps of notification that soothes your soul and nourishes your mind, setting you up perfectly for a fruitful day.

What's your love like?

Is it the extravagant shower of gifts and pleasantries? The kind that leaves different kinds of beautiful flowers and little boxes here and there for your surprise.

The kind that makes sure that your wardrobe is never out of date and your storehouse is never empty. The type that makes an involuntary tourist out of you and gives you memories that travel junks would kill for.

Is it the type that makes sure you never have to ask, and completes your material life with a steady flow of gifts and trips.

Whats your love like?

Is it the total occupation of mind and the obsession with your existence?. The kind that keeps tabs every second and minute, making sure that your whereabouts and welfare are always at the front burner.

The type that calls and texts every minute and always wants to be abreast of what you're doing. Is it the type that every second without him or her seems like forever and drives you nuts?

The type that the presence of another around him or her wells up billows of emotions and jealousy that can tumble the poseidon.

Whats your love like?

Is it the constant show off and incessant public display of affection?. The type that holds your hand in public and while you're descending the stairs.

The type that kisses your hand at every given opportunity, reminding you of the volume of affection he feels for you.

Is it the type that takes you to exotic sweet candle lit dinners where you both sit and whisper sweet nonsense and giggle to each other throughout the night.

These are different love languages understood by different individuals. These different kinds of love have their own prices that must be paid by both individual involved.

Some would cost a lot of money, some would cost a lot of emotional awareness, some would cost a lot of time allotment, some would cost a lot of romantic creativity.

In all, they cost something and failure to pay the price would most definitely result in heartbreak fo either or both parties.

I've seen a lot of people's relationships fail because they failed to understand their partner's love language and price. I have to say that I've also been a culprit in this as well.

The result of this being that we pay for this mistake in a different way. This different way is not always the most palatable, and they're definitely the hardest of the prices.

So before you commit to any relationship, make sure you find out the love language of your prospective partner and weigh yourself against the expectations to see if you can meet them. If you can't, it's better you stay away and find someone else that fits your profile.

Because in any relationship there are two prices to pay, the first one which brings about stability and happiness, while the other brings about heartbreak and sometimes enmity.

So what does your love cost?

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