@Davinchysax 11 February 2021 more from that month

Who is in charge, you or your second brain below?

This topic is most times considered as inappropriate as it borders on the area one can tag as private. Well, today I am so moved to talk about it because it has become so important that most times we end up not knowing that we are being controlled by it. The first question one can ask is; what is the second brain below? For the sake of courtesy, I will try not to be vulgar with words. Whether you are a man or a woman, there is a part of your body that most times acts on its own by either changing your mood or making you long for another person’s touch. This part is known and classified as the private part but I will call it your second brain below in this article. I hope you can relate with my explanation on what the second brain below is? Well if you are not then it means that you may have to read it over and over again for better understanding.

Source https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1582279976742-3fb2592927ed?ixlib=rb-1.2.1&ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&auto=format&fit=crop&w=370&q=80 This is the part of the body every human battle with intentionally or unintentionally because the way and manner our creator made it is that it must have the mind of its own for it to function very well. This can be proven when we compare the level of sexual urge a woman who is circumcised and a woman who is not. The two are complete in their human form but something is greatly missing in the life of the former than in the life of the latter. One will feel the urge as a woman while the other will end up not feeling it or completely losing the urge as a woman. I must state it clearly that female circumcision is not good because it takes away that part of a woman that makes her a woman. I am following this trend just to make sure that you will understand how important it is for one to carefully look at this topic as a man or a woman.

Source https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1609602008508-03a338d74fb6?ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&ixlib=rb-1.2.1&auto=format&fit=crop&w=751&q=80 For the men, it is medically proven that a healthy man must and should have an erection especially in the early hours of the morning every day of his life ones he has gotten the age of puberty. This is not because he is thinking about sex or having a romantic thought going through his mind rather it is because that has been the way his body is wired from birth. I have heard some men who say that they do not have such erection but when they do, it is almost impossible for them to control it. This is the reason why I decided to write on this topic. Let me ask a personal question to you my dear reader; do you always give in to sex because your sex organ was triggered off either on its own or naturally? You don’t have to give your answer in the comment section rather it is an answer you give to yourself. If your answer is on the negative then you don’t have a problem but if your answer in on the positive, I strongly believe you need to look at things differently.

Source https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1583138994397-bf68699ec425?ixlib=rb-1.2.1&ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&auto=format&fit=crop&w=634&q=80 When our body reacts either through natural occurrence or triggered by human behaviour, we are most likely to give in because we lack self-control and the will power to decide how or when we engage in sexual activity. Whenever you see yourself acting based on sex or that your actions are influenced by sex, this means that you are seriously not in control of yourself rather the brain below is the one in charge. A lot of men and women have ended up regretting the actions they took because they allowed the brain below to direct them. One clear fact is that we most times forget that we have the will power to stop ourselves from allowing the brain below to control us but the issue is that we have become so accustomed to giving in to its demand their by making it the controller of our lives.

Source https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1582944682702-8d357814f820?ixlib=rb-1.2.1&ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&auto=format&fit=crop&w=634&q=80 No man or woman who lives under the control of the brain below will achieve success in their life journey. It is difficult for one to be seen as a person of integrity if such a person is not in control of the brain below. A lot of great men have lost their greatness just because they could not differentiate between the brains up in their skull and the one between their two legs. We must make conscious effort to have a stronghold on ourselves when it comes to giving in to sex because we cannot afford to lose a great opportunity because of an act which was controlled by the brain below. For the women, it seems like they do not have the urge for sex like they men but I want to make it clear to you my reader, women have the urge for sex more than the men, the difference is that they tend to have a stronger control about it because they are selective when it comes to getting in contact with anyone, unlike the men.   Being selective is something most men do not consider one it comes to sex and the partner involved. They think just with the brain below just for a momentary satisfaction which most times keeps them unhappy as soon as it is over. This article is for us to critically look inwards and find out which part of the brain is actually in control of our lives, is it the brain up in the skull or the one below and in-between our thighs? Be wise and think about it because if care is not taken, it may ruin your good life. Lead image https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1566669419640-ae09e20a18d8?ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&ixlib=rb-1.2.1&auto=format&fit=crop&w=667&q=80