Be the motivator to win, not the reason someone loses. Be an example of someone's laughter, not someone's crying. One of your negative words can shatter anyone's dream in an instant. Again, a positive example of putting one's hand on someone's shoulder can turn someone's life around. There is a very short history behind the rise of every human being. When he can't find the meaning of life with extreme frustration, misery and constant frustration in his chest, just then - yes, just then, someone puts a hand on his shoulder and keeps an eye on him - 'You can too.' From this small trust is born a gunpowder, which we call a successful person.
Don't stop the boy who wants to turn again and again or the girl who wants to get up again by saying 'skip all this' rather increase the speed by saying 'try again'. Be the history of someone's rise without being the cause of someone's destruction.
Instead of laughing at a friend who speaks the wrong English, give him a little encouragement. You will see that even a boy who knows a little English with your encouragement will one day bring a higher degree from abroad with the highest score in IELTS. If you want to stop his speed, your sarcastic smile on him is enough. Instead of being the villain of someone's life, work to be the hero of someone's changed life forever.
Appreciate the song even if it lies to a loved one who knows a little bit of the song. But you will see that he will practice 5 minutes more songs every day than the other day, even if he is inspired by your false praise or to make your faith in him come true. Maybe one day he will become a really good artist. And your negative comments about his songs are enough to stop him. Become a story of someone's rise without causing someone's downfall.
The boy, who smokes one cigarette per hour, also swears a few hours without a cigarette while hanging out with his beloved; Because his beloved believes the boy does not smoke. How many chain smokers spent the whole day without smoking on a long drive with their beloved to make this a false belief come true.
Can't believe the words? "Your smile is so beautiful" is the compliment that the girl has heard, she has an account of how many times she has stood in front of the mirror and smiled for no reason. The boy who is praised for his "hairstyle" will take care of his hair by standing in front of the mirror at least a few times a day. Why is that? Because we do not want the beliefs of loved ones to be false.
Remember, negative thinking is a contagious disease. Depression is a deadly disorder; Silently destroys the path to success. So let go of despair, hope to save; Success in the palm of your hand.
yes totally agreed...actually we can do two things...positive and negative...our positive words can lift someone up..as well as the negative one lift him down...we shouldn't be the reason of someone's failure...