A broken glass can't be fixed perfectly

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Good day readers and I hope you had a good day, without taking much of your time. Let's head straight up to the topic of the day.

Ps: This is in no way a judgemental article and all said here is a personal opinion, we good.

While on Instagram, I came across a news about a Gospel minister who wrote a public apology for cheating on his wife and also to the ministry, I scroll past it because I wasn't in the mood to write a long note when my boss and his wife arrive at the office, they started talking about something, I mean the whole band was on Whatsapp group chatting with voice note, not that I was listening to them though, but I just listen for a bit, which made me return to the news of the gospel minister that committed adultery.

According to him, they met in late 2021 at his trip to USA, one thing lead to another and the spirit of fornication came over, which he couldn't resist because the spirit was strong but the body was weak.

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The lady said she won't remove the pregnant, she has asked nothing of him and the only thing she needs from him is his respect. What my boss and his wife were arguing about is that he shouldn't have opened it to the public, knowing fully well that he's an ambassador of Christ and this news will make so many non-believers think that they all are the same, though I agreed with them I still think there was a reason he opened it to the public himself rather than people hearing it from someone else, which will be evil worst because they will add more things to it that he didn't only commit adultery, the woman he committed it with was pregnant and he neglected the pregnancy for she to care for it alone.

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I remember back in the days, when we do something wrong and we know that our parents are going to punish us for it, we will be the first to let them know about what we did so the punishment will be less than they found out themselves, that's a strategy that he used.

Though some people believe that the reason he came said it to the media was that it was out of his control, I went through the comment section to read people's thoughts towards it and some of them were saying why didn't he use protection and so on.

A broken glass can't be fixed and the wife will be so heartbroken right now, I heard she hasn't been able to give him a child ever since they got married, just imagine the trauma she must be having now, it not going to be easy for her to trust him again, it's supposed to be for better for worst and as a Gospel minister, people are looking up to you in faith and this selfish act has already caused so many people to backslide.

I don't support abortion because he's a full-grown man and he should know that there are consequences to his actions, even if this was the first time he cheated on his wife, that doesn't matter because with great power comes great responsibility, he should have remembered that before coming adultery.

Conclusion

It's not easy to remain faithful to one spouse for the rest of one's life, it takes more than being spiritual to overcome temptations, just like my recent article stated about moving away from bad energy, same goes to this, Joseph didn't stand and speak in tongues when Potiphar wife tries to seduce him, instead he flee away from her because he knows that if he had stayed, his body won’t have resisted her for long and he also did it because he don’t want to commit secret sins against God. Human fears humans more than they fear God. That’s why we still commit secret sins, knowing that God sees us but we still do it because we haven’t been caught yet.

That's it for today, I hope you enjoyed reading it. Flee away from temptation if you don't want to do it before the body becomes weaker to resist it.

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25/01/2022

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It's like when u throw a words to someone, and it's broke them. U can't just say aorry because it can't heal a person's feeling

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True, sorry can't fix things.

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It goes the same with when the so called "Trust" is broken, it will never be back at once, completely.

He do the right thing but as for me, this should be done privately. A lot better, I think.

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Well, people would still find out about it.

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All human beings are imperfect and capable of committing sins at any time. The person he should have come clean with was his wife. Not to subject himself to public scorn. In my opinion, not in my judgment because I will not judge him. He should place himself at the order of the just judge.

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There must be a reason he came out publicly.

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This is indeed a broken glass, but then it might still get fixed but it will never be smooth again.

He did the right thing doing a public confession actually. It's well...

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It might be fixed but not perfect as before.

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Great piece of writing, your article makes a lot of sense. You are one of the best Nigerian writers I have seen here. keep up the good work,

Public confession is not a bad thing, by it, the man has freed himself from both man and God. so many prominent gospel preachers have fallen into similar temptation, and they confessed openly. That cannot make any true Christian backslide but instead built their faith to guild against similar temptation.

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That's true sir. We should learn to know that these ministers are also humans and humans do make mistakes.

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