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Let's talk about Premarital Sex

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Are you familiar with this kind of discussion, maybe you are since in school we already learn that premarital sex is wrong however some people are still practicing it. Pre marital sex define as an act of having sexual intercourse of opposite gender it can be also apply on the same gender before the marriage. This kind of act is really rampant nowadays specially for those partners that loving each other even though they are not legally binded by the law of human and God. The sad part is, it's practice by youngsters due to different factors that pushing them to deal with it. One of those factors is peer pressure maybe from their group of friends or pressure from their surroundings. Actually, even a mere child aging from 10 years old have already knowledge about rightness and wrongness of an actions. If a teenage girl or teenage boy encountered scenarios involving morality, he or she had a choice to what she or he gonna act. One of example is temptation. We humans have emotions and once we are on situation like you and your girlfriend are inside the dark room and theres no people surrounds you, what you gonna do?.

Maybe some of you will answer that you and your girlfriend gonna conduct a Bible study, however it differs from reality that you gonna think something green right. Specially there's a temptation you gonna feel then the next thing is lust. Then the fight gonna happen and sometimes those fight can lead to maybe good or bad outcome, good in the sense that you feel happiness and cloud nine moments but bad in the sense that you gonna feel full for 9 months. That's how morality should work, in every actions or situations we are, we should now how we should act right, we need to choose the best and the safest way to avoid mistakes that can ruin our life. Lots of changes as time goes by premarital sex is normalize in different parts of the globe specially in America which they are too liberated. They have so much freedom to the point that engaging on premarital sex is not a big deal, as you can see on American teenage movies, it's normal that there's a sex scenes even though they have no relationship to each other. We can literally see the difference of the past and present. In past, it's forbidden to touch nor kiss the lady unless you are in relationship, in Philippines during Spanish colonization.

Filipinas can be describe as Maria Clara since they are pure and innocent. If there's a boy that gonna touch their hand nor kiss them, they must stand for it and promise to marry that lady. Unlike now that some ladies give their body's to anyone who wanna touch it, I'm worried cause this world is going back from the past. In the Bible, I don't know what exactly city it is but it was burn down by fire since it's already sin city full of prostitution and crimes. God decide to wipe out everyone on that city except the family of Job, correct me if I'm wrong. I think it's not appropriate to talk about Bible since I'm not knowledgeable on it. Let's go back to topic, lots of people engage on premarital sex faced lots of consequences, specially for woman which so much affected, one of those consequences is becoming pregnant and it's problematic specially if that lady is still studying and her boyfriend is also studying. Like they always say, think before trying things cause it might change our life forever. Morality should always works in everything we do so that we can avoid future mistakes. I will make this article longer cause I prefer to make it short, don't bash me I'm just a little mushroom lurking on the bushes of this universe.

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Premarital sex is normal nalang this days kasi Yung live in partner premarital padin Yan Kasi Hindi Naman kasal. Kaya bilib ako sa mga couple na talagang napreserved Yung purity nila bago sila ikasal.

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1 month ago

Naging normal na tlga sa ibang tao ang pre marital sex kahit kasal pa sila. Nasa tao lng ksi yan pero konti n lng tlga matino sa mundo. Just saying...

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1 month ago

On this side of the planet (America), it is normal. There are even couples who never marry. Young people start in that life very early (15 years) and in many cases less. The cultural difference is abysmal.

Ps: they are not all, but it is the most common.

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1 month ago

maybe due to so much liberation people can do everything they want and neglect all religious beliefs about premarital sex.

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1 month ago

what's worse is that they normalize this kind of thing especially in today's generation and even the gen z

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1 month ago

It's the effects of changes and influence of technology that's how alarming future generations are.

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1 month ago

Di ako against sa premarital sex as long as they are really know what they are doing. What needs to be done talaga not just here in our country is to broaden the idea of sex. I include na sana siya sa school para mas aware na ang mga tao at mga kabataan anong pros and cons.

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1 month ago

It's a long debate actually, some people believe on religion which it's forbidden and sinful yet there are people see premarital sex as nothing as long as two couples are enjoying on it.

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1 month ago

I think others are not taking s*x seriously lalo na sa kabataan, just my observation:)

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1 month ago

Women should take care of their physical body. Protection should be taught and practiced if two person decides to do the deed.

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1 month ago

I'm not against on premarital sex to be honest. However, I don't plan doing it myself. For my own opinion premarital sex is not as bad as people think. It's the way to express love and pleasure. If two partner fall in temptation, then there's this sex education teaching a sex safe tips. As long as people know their responsibilities it's okay. If we're talking about religion (I know I'll gonna be bash by this one but here we go) in terms of religion Christianism to be specific, aren't Mary got impregnated by The holy spirit even though they're not married and that time mary is Joseph's partner the time. The point is, it's not about beliefs, or religions, laws and standard. It's about the right mindset and being responsible to your own actions.

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1 month ago

finish na may nanalo na, wala ako masabi hahaha

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1 month ago

It was Sodom and Gomora beh, un city na sinira. Nowadays, parang normal na lang ang premarital sex lalo na sa mga kabataan. Pero meron pa din naman na kasal muna bago yun.

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1 month ago

yeah tingin ko po nakadepende padin talaga sa couple kung papanindigan nila hanggang sa araw ng kasal nila, solid po yung ganun.

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1 month ago

Yes but 1 out of 10 lang yata ang ganun sa panahon ngayon, hehehe..

Honestly, ako I had premarital sex but with my husband na. Not just sa kanikanino lang na naging bf ko.

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1 month ago

I wouldn’t indulge in it and expect people to avoid this as well.. it’s very bad and biblically wrong as well… thank you for taking your time to break this down m.. everything in life is a phase, we can’t jump over each one of them.. and we must not forget the dare consequences too

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1 month ago

Very rampant today's generation. Yung tipong mas ikinakahiya ang pagiging virgin kasi hindi na daw uso at napag iiwanan na trends.

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1 month ago

lalo na sa America, kapag virgin kapa bubulihin ka ng ibang kabataan.

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1 month ago

Ayy as in. Grabe naman yan

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1 month ago

Am totally against the premarital sex since the two are not legally married. It is always a welcome idea to jettison what is not cultural right though some societies don't perceive it as bad but the consequences may lead to sadness. Am aligned to your content of your article. Am highly impressed with your write-up. Keep it up. You are great. Stay blessed.

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1 month ago

I know someone that got pressured by her peers. She was the only one in her friend group that was still a virgin and her friends do not believe that she is. The outcome is that, she forced herself to have pre marital sex just to fit in. 🤦‍♂️

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1 month ago

Truly it is rampant nowadays! I think it seems like tradition already because mostly it already taken advantage by the people at this generation.

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1 month ago

Being conservative country is already transforming into liberate country which people are doing everything they want and exploring things that the law of human and God forbidden, that's how sad and alarming this world is.

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1 month ago

Lol... We're not going to bash you for expressing yourself... But premarital sex is almost not bad once you remove religion. But if you are religious, then attempt to answer this... If God wanted sex only in marriage, then why don't we get our genitalia on our wedding days... Maybe as a present or something...???

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1 month ago

Is it before or after wedding? If after wedding maybe it's already in culture od everyone that both couple vows at each other enjoy the honeymoon then partake on making love, but if it's before I think it's still sin since both couple are not still legally binded.

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1 month ago

I understand you...

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1 month ago

This is true chikakiku. Every individual must be responsible for their actions. Always have a right and active mindset then think what will be happen because if you make a one mistake it will never change and it will jump you into another chapter of life.

You must be careful. Always think an advance and do not let the temptations ruin your life. There are a lot of choices you have to and choose the right one.

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1 month ago

very well said ate, I bet your a kind of person that understand the consequences of every actions that's why you always distinguish if it's the right actions to act. I salute you ate.

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1 month ago

Thank you chikakiku. Yes, we must be careful don't let yourself be on regrets chikakiku.

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1 month ago