Human Behavior

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There are different types of people in this world and they have different characteristics there are people which are kind hearted and had good looks, there are kind hearted but with not so good looks, there are arrogant people which had good looks, this type of people feels like they are superior in everything.

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They feel like they are so handsome and pretty that's why people around should praise them. Good looking people have beautiful and handsome faces but their attitude is like a trash, they don't know how to respect people around them specially the elders. I encountered many kind of these people and I don't like them.

However there are also good looking people wearing a good attitude, they are the people worth to respect, they don't care if they talk to poor as long as they can make friends, they don't care if they are rich but using their hands to eat at banana leaves. Even if they are on top, they still look below them where they were before since they already experienced the difficulty of life.

Actually, there's a famous saying that a person comes from poor that became rich is not afraid to become poor again but those people that born rich cannot stand the life of being poor since they live in fancy life and doesn't experience to eat nothing throughout the day. I am really pissed of how riches behave when they are in poor area or encounter those people that asking help.

Sometimes they gonna help but it's not a pure help since at the back of their smiles while giving those help there's a feel of disgust in them. Some even says hurtful words even in front of you. Specially, those rich relatives that feels like they are superiors once you asked help from them since you didn't know where you can find help.

They will give you help but before they will give help, they will talk lots of hurtful words to you and mock you but you don't have any choice but to lower your ego since your the one who asked helped from them. Still it's wrong that you mock the person cause your higher from them. I don't understand humans, even if those people that serving at church are the one who engage in inhuman behavior.

Spreading gossips about a certain person then in the end the reputation will ruin. There's a famous artist said that sometimes those people serving on the churches are the worst one unlike those people that wearing tattoos, they looks like scary due to their tattoos but once you talk to them they are so kind and ready to listen on you.

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You can't judge the book by it's cover, sometimes what we see that makes us scared is ready to help us in times of needs. Sometimes those people wearing decent clothes, no tattoo on their body are the worst one. It's really awful to realize that people nowadays are basing on looks rather than attitude specially in love.

Maybe our eyes can fool us but not our hearts, maybe we just need to discover what's the true nature of a person in order to know him or her better. We don't know the reason why people wants a tattoo on their body, sometimes it's for display to show its beauty but there are people who's wearing lots of tattoos cause they have the reasons.

Maybe those tattoos resembles the pain that they have, the memories that they have or they wear tattoos since they want to show their braveness under their weakness. Some arrogant people easily judge those people with tattoos, once they saw a person with tattoo, they will immediately think that he or she's an addict or a member of gang.

They will avoid that person since they see that they have tattoos without knowing that the person is a kind and good hearted, he accomplished lots of achievements and manage to help lots of people rather than the person who judge him that no achievements in life and doesn't do anything to help the community.

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I used to judge by looks but I stopped that long time ago. The truth is that, you can only see the good or bad of a person when you get closer to them and not a mere judgement based on appearance. Just like the tattooed body you talked about, get closer to them and see that most of them are calm as cold water

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2 years ago

Makes me remember my husbands wish to have tattoo. Half of his body is covered with birthmarks, ugly ones that took away his confidence and that's why he wanted to get those parts tattooed. He also wanted to put his late father's name in his chest in memory of him. So, you see, not all people covered with tattoo are bad persons. Each has his own story to tell and that's how they wanted to express themselves. L

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2 years ago

Naalala ko auntie ko, nagbibigay sya ng tulong oero before yun syempre manunumbat ng ganiti ganyan 🙄 nakakainis rin kaya. Nagbigay pa ng tulong kung ending puro sumbay naman 🙄

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2 years ago

And there goes the Judger. May iba nga ma di man ganon ka pleasant ang itsura, I mean may ganon ee sa unang tingin kala mo di gagawa ng mabuti pero yung mga yun pa pala ang di kayang gumawa ng masama. Mas sila pa ang may mabuting kalooban kesa dun sa iba na pag ang daming nakatingin todo ngiti, todo bigay at kung ano ano pa. Pero pag talikod naman, naku talaga. As for me walang kaso sakin ang may tattoo, ewan I find them hot kesa madumi

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2 years ago

Humans tend to feel superior once they have a certain thing more than others. Forgetting that humans are meant to treat each other as equals, because that's what we are. Superiority shouldn't be based on physical appearance or your possession.

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2 years ago

Human behavior fluctuates eventually in every situations. Some are pretentious in expressing sentiment and making false responses and even facial gesture just to scape pressure situation.

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2 years ago

It is so hard to trust people nowadays. Some don't have pure intention. In case of judging, we shouldn't judge someone based on their appearance. Get to know them first.

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2 years ago

We really shouldn't judge people by their appearance. Although, they say DRESS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE ADDRESSED. We shouldn't be hostile to people because they look irresponsible

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2 years ago

Kaya minsan, nag aalangan akong tumanggap ng tulong sa ibang tao. Kasi malay mo dba? Di pala pure yung pagtulong. Hate ko din yung mga taong nkaahon lnag sa hirap, kung umasta akala mo kung sino.

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2 years ago

Personally I don't like tattoos but if these things give some peace and happiness to that specific person then it's totally okay, they too have innate rights to fulfill their wish we can't judge them. There are many of us who shows their fake kindness just to show off their money and there are also some of us who silently shares their blessings with the needy ones. It's takes the same time to utter a bad word and a good but I can't understand why some people use hateful words just to show their supiriority.

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2 years ago

cannot be hidden the description of this context has revealed human behavior itself. Honestly, I have to say that there are times when I have traits like the paragraph above, but there are times when I also have a humble attitude. actually this context has given sub two meanings namely. pride and humility have covered it all. someone's honesty can show that he is a good person.

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2 years ago

Sometimes, some help aren't actually pure, some are just a show to impress others about their fake kindness

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2 years ago

True! One can never judge people base on its physical attributes. I like people who are rich and good-looking but still remains humble and kind. Their attitude must be modeled by many.

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2 years ago

You said it right. Some people are wearing a fake smiles just to impress other people. There were also that really showing it without hesitations. I think its nature for as human beings to have different characteristics. We are unique of who and what we are.

People tend to praise those ones that looks good both inside and out. Some also mistook those who help in exchange for something. I don't know how to explain it further, but maybe, we should always be aware of whom to trust.

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2 years ago

yeah in the end it's still a matter of who should we trust cause we didn't know the people's true color that we encounter.

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2 years ago

One or two tattoos on the body are fine. But if it's a whole body, no it's ugly for me already 🤣

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2 years ago

yeah same as for me din ate pangit kaseag buong katawan may tattoo tas black pa yung buong mata.

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2 years ago

Outlook can't decide the inner humanity. Who knows the bad image boy may have the cutest heart?

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2 years ago

Yes chikakiku thats true. Human has own differences. Humans are not the same and we encounter a different kind of behaviors of an individual. Sometimes good, sometimes not good.

It's true that people judge based on what they saw especially the physical appearance. They will embrace you if you have a good looks and sometimes they will down you if you have a poor looks. Based on what behaviors you showed in the public they will judge you easily without knowing the real you.

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2 years ago

I don´t like tattoos :(

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2 years ago