@Clintbling 28 August 2020 more from that month

Tips On How To Maximise Your Chances Of Reaching Orgasm During S£x

**Get out of your own head** This is one of the fundamental issues I think us girls have. In order for us to cum during s£x, we need to be completely absorbed in what we’re doing (or, perhaps more appropriately, what’s being done to us). But for many of us we struggle to switch our brains off and just enjoy. We worry about what our bodies look like. We worry if he’s enjoying himself. And, of course, we worry if we’re going to be able to cum or not. Ladies, the cold, hard truth is sometimes you have to be selfish. When it comes to s£x, forget about everything else and focus on what you want to gain from the experience. If you want him to talk dirty to you, tell him. If you want him to touch you, kiss you, lick you, in a certain place, way, at a certain speed tell the guy. He’ll be more than happy to accommodate. Remember, if a guy really cares about you, he’ll want to be able to make you cum and he’ll be glad of the guidance. Plus, there is nothing more s£xy than a woman who’s knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to go after it and we all know that’s a fact. **Settle into it and don’t panic** How many times have you been in a position where a guy is playing with your cl!toris and it feels good and just as you’re really getting into it… he stops? It’s infuriating, isn’t it? What a lot of men don’t realise, and therefore it’s your responsibility to tell them, is that it can take up to 20 minutes, sometimes more, of direct, consistent stimulation to the clitoris to make a girl cum. For most men, because they can typically reach the big O within a couple of minutes, they naturally assume you’re the same. Again, it’s up to you to inform them otherwise. And don’t feel bad about him having to focus on you for a longer period of time. You have a more complex s£xual system than he does so of course you’re going to need more time. Let him know that this is just how the female body works and he should be happy to settle in and get to work. **Positions you can use** Now for the practical side. These are my top 3 positions for maximising your chances of orgasm during s3x. 1-When he’s sitting on the sofa, use this as the perfect opportunity to stick on some trashy lingerie and then, with him watching, crawl across the floor towards him. Then climb onto his lap and ride your way to orgasm. The intimacy of this position makes it a really good options for those of you who fall into that category of not being able to get out of your head. He can hold you close to him and gaze lovingly into your eyes whilst you move towards orgasm together. 2- Whilst he’s in the shower, jump in next to him and give him a naughty little morning surprise. Lift the shower head down from the wall and hold it against you, letting the spray hit you between the legs whilst he enters you from behind. The sensations are almost vibrator like and are highly pleasurable for a woman. Just don’t forget to use some water proof lube. This is supposed to be wet and wild , not dry and painful. 3-Lie face down on a bed, lifting your hips so he can enter you. You’ll get all the cl!toral stimulation you need from the bed whilst he happily humps away. This is a particularly good option for women who enjoy having their man in the more dominant position during s£x. So there you have it, folks. My top tips and positions on how to maximise your chances or reaching orgasm during s£x. I hope you found this post useful and I’ll be back with another post soon. Happy humping! With love, Clint Bling