How do I pay them back?

How do I pay them back?

This is the big question I was always thinking everytime my two sister in laws are helping us especially in our financial problem.

Last night ,my sister in law ate Lyn chatted me ,saying "thank you for your effort ,thank you for the spaghetti" she is the mother of Jade who in now an engineer.As what I wrote on my last article about our celebration for Jade's success ,I am the one who prepared everything aside of the decorations and buying the things we need for that celebration.

Everytime we had a celebration here ,I am the one who prepared everything ,even though my sister in law told me to get and they paid for a dishwasher or someone to cooked ,but I insisted that I am the one who do that coz it just added the expenses.

So ,what's the big question is about?

My two sister in law was our financial heroes,the two of them our rescuer every financial crisis we had.

Hospital bills

When I gave birth of my 1st son ,my husband that time can't find a job thats why I am still working even I am pregnant .My savings that time was only 6000pesos and when the doctor said that I had to gave birth through CS,my husband contacted his two sister quickly asking for help and they sent us 6000 since it was not their salary ,they will sent another amount in the next day when their salary was given to them and thank God I gave birth through normal delivery because of fundal push ,so my husband told them that we will gave it them back to them but they said its ours na ,since my husband don't had a job that time.

At my 2nd baby,when I gave birth to him ,we need a huge amount since I was gave him birth through CS and our money that time was not enough to paid the doctor we had 20,000 and we need another 10,000 pesos since it was a private doctor and my two sister in laws sent us 5000pesos each of them.

Celebrations expenses

Since my husband before can't find a job,they gave us money for my 1st son's first birthday and baptism,I remember they sent us 8000pesos and his first birthday also,in his 2nd to 5th birthdays its our money was used na coz my husband had already a job.

Our wedding expenses

They gave us more than we spent for our wedding ,I decided to had a simple wedding celebration since our money savings that time was only 30k+ but my two sister in laws,ate Cres and ate Lyn wanted to have a little bit special wedding since my husband was their youngest sibling.They spent more than 40k I think.I can't stop crying during our wedding coz I felt so happy and blessed at thesame time I was so ashammed that they spent more amount than us.

After our wedding ,I talked to them I was saying thank you for all they done to us ,but they said it was their way of paying back what my husband done to them.

They are both a single mom,ate Cres was a single mom of two kids,ate Lyn also was a single mom of jade ,but now she already married with a daughter but she raised Jade on her own without the help of Jade's father.

When ate Cres decided to work abroad,my husband was the one who take care of her two kids until now that they grow older,my husband stands as the father to them.

And for me to pay them back their kindness to us ,their helped to us I was paying it through my service ,whatever they wanted me to do .Every celebrations we had here ,I am the one who manage ,for their kids since she was not here I replace for a while her duty as a mother to them .Taking care of them ,prepared their foods ,washed their laundry ,cleaned the house.But now that we decided to live seperately to them ,I was trying to watch them ,cleaned the house if we had an occasion and about the laundry ate Cres was paying me na ,kasi hindi na gaya ng dati na pwede ko isabay yung labahan ng anak niya sa amin ,ngayong dalawang malalaking batya na ang labahan niya and ate cres insisted na bayaran ako everytime magpalaba siya.

For now ,since I cannot give them back the money they spent for us ,a good service for them was my way of paying them back.Even if they said "no need to paying back coz we are a family and we support and help each other".

How lucky and grateful I am to have them as my sisters❤️🥰

And thats all for my blog today ,thank you dearest supporters of mine❤️

Good Morning and have great day ahead!

GOD Bless