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Saying Sorry IS An Error

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Written by   102
9 months ago
Topics: Apology

Saying sorry is an Error.

Yes! You heard me right. Saying sorry is an Error.

I know so many of you are getting confused right now, as to why I said saying sorry is an Error., But I would tell you so now.

Saying"sorry, or I am sorry", isn't bad! It is very good actually. Especially when you wrong or offend someone.

But saying "sorry" almost all the time., For a particular wrong or more different wrongs, without making an effort to at least quit the practice and try to be better, is an ERROR!

The word "sorry", knowing the importance, and how it always comes through for so many of us during times of pain and guilt., Shouldn't be abused.

Inasmuch as we aren't perfect, and we tend to make mistakes., Mild ones, average ones, and crazy ones all the same., We should always make an effort to quit that very practice that makes us use the word "sorry".

The word "I am sorry", is just likened to the word "I love you". These two words are some of the most used words on earth, positively and wrongly too. So many lies about love, even when a person says "I love you".

The deceit that follows is second to none. Because of this fact, so many don't believe in the potency of "I love you" anymore because people keep saying it, professing it, and not showing it.

This is the same with the word "I am sorry". Since everyone does mistakes, everyone uses that word, excluding the extra proud and pompous humans.

75% of people saying the word "I am sorry, doesn't mean it, and so can't even think of quitting the act that leads to them being sorry.

20% of people using the word "I am sorry", mean it when they say it, but not when they do it. Because they don't care about identifying what led to them being sorry, and trashing it, so it doesn't occur again. But no! I guess they both love to use the word "sorry" more often than usual.

And 5% of humans, using the word "I am sorry", aren't just sorry, but intentional. They mean it when they say it, and mean more when they go all along, trying their best not to repeat the act that led to them being sorry.

"SORRY", isn't just a word, or a phrase. Aside from that, there is more to it. It's an outstanding word, and an act/process.

You being sorry, implies that you accept your wrong, and promise to look into your flaws, correcting them and making sure they don't repeat themselves again.

So each time you only say the word and do not act and consciously and Intentionally carry out the "Sorry" process, it's become an abuse of the word.

Do you know you don't have to be sorry?

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Yes!

You can elude being sorry or saying sorry almost every time in your life. You can escape apologizing to nerds and people around you.

Do you know how much luck, saying "I am sorry", and how much harm, when people get to know you were only sorry for a reason, and not season and out of season? When they get to know that you went back to your formal lifestyle, and didn't intentionally carry out the "sorry process".

It brings more harm than good. This is because so many individuals have a very low rate of tolerance. And as such, not everyone has your time or the strength to keep tolerating your excesses, till maybe you are forced to change by some forces beyond earth.

Some people just tolerate you twice, and the moment you are always repeating that act, and not keen in changing, they are good at spreading stuff about your incompetence, and bad habits around to people.

Now., Who's to lose and who's to gain?

You definitely would lose out if the word "I am sorry", begins to hunt you.

But when you say the words and also actively involve yourself, Intentionally into the "success process", you have nothing to lose, because when people see how intentional you are about correcting your wrongs, they attach certain respect to you, opportunities could also come through for you, you will be used to model integrity and lots more.

Yes! I remember asking you if you knew you could escape saying or being sorry all the time.

Let me reveal the secret to you.

When you do stuffs rightly., Do you apologize to anyone?

When you obey rules/regulations, do you apologize to anyone?

And lots more.

In a case like this, you escaped apologizing, right? Yes!

The same method is applicable to every other situation.

Always try and strive to do the right thing. That way, you won't have to be apologetic.

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Now ask yourself these...

Why do you have to be sorry all the time, for something you could actually handle and handle well enough?

Think outside the box, and be knowledgeable enough to know all good words, in some way cab be abused. And also try to not just be sorry, but to trash the cause of you being sorry.

Thanks for reading fam, you all have been my biggest motivation.

Thanks once more🖤. see you Tomorrow

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I like the theme of your article. Saying "I am sorry" or "I love you" is common and overused. The weightage of "sorry" and "love" remains the same, but overuse makes them like banal words. If someone says to me, "I love you," I generally look at the person in suspicion. I take time to review the situation and then react.

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9 months ago

Thanks for reading Friend. Look forward to seeing you. More

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9 months ago

Let's connect and exchange our thoughts on our content.

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9 months ago

Sure 😎😎

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9 months ago

Sorry can be misused like all the time. Some sorrys are not really true and just saying it to escape situation. Sorry should be used in good way.

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9 months ago

This is the honest truth, but I still appreciate and regard anyone that says sorry. Why? Some people won't still say the word sorry, knowing full well there are wrong and it's so pathetic.

So I believe a person has taken a giant and humility step, saying sorry even if it isn't sincere

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9 months ago

repeating the same mistake and saying sorry is of no sense to me tho but everyone has their opinion

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9 months ago

Saying sorry used to mean something but right now I don't know if it does. We all need to change our attitude and mean it when we say it.

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9 months ago

thanks for reading my friend

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9 months ago

Saying sorry all the time isn't palatable,we should try to deceit from what would make us say sorry, sometimes sorry doesn't solve the issue

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9 months ago

yeah, at times i dont even wanna hear that word

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9 months ago

You're right... Actions have to back up words... If you'll say you're sorry,,, you should show you mean it...

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9 months ago

even when you mean it, still doing the same thing often make no sense

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9 months ago

I think the only way you show you mean it is by not doing it again...

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9 months ago

We should say sorry when necessary. Other than that, we will be unfair.

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9 months ago

you are right dear

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9 months ago

Exactly. Sorry shouldn't be an every seconds thing. We should work on doing things right to avoid saying sorry all the time, though saying sorry is a good act.

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9 months ago

you are right, but many do abuse it

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9 months ago

This is wonderful, it wouldn’t hurt to say sorry and it goes a long way to stop every horrible thing from happening… this isn’t just an article but a message and I’m holding onto this..

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9 months ago

thanks for reading

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9 months ago

hmmm.I remember when my daughter was still a kid I use to teach her to say sorry when She made a mistake but then there was a time that I told her I don't want her to keep saying sorry and still doing the same mistake . What's the point. She should be sorry and try her best not to do the same mistake again.

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9 months ago

exactly, at that time the word is no longer valid, thanks for reading dear

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9 months ago

Sorry for me means I'm sorry for what I did and that it will never happen again. But when same issue happened and then SORRY in exchange now that word is no ! meaning. What are you sorry for if your not change? Nice one friend

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9 months ago

thanks so much for reading dear, it means a lot to me

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9 months ago

It's always good for us to say sorry whether we are in the wrong or not cos it can solve a lot of problems when it is said

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9 months ago

yes i get it but not when you do thing wrongly all the time

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9 months ago

.People just misuse the word these days without even meaning what they say, all words but no action

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9 months ago

it hurt more when it comes from people you care for or love. thanks for reading

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9 months ago

I always say this to people who have done me the same wrong twice. Sorry means nothing if you're not willing to change or to stop doing that thing

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9 months ago

exactly, it just don't make sense

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9 months ago