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Seriously!

Everything should be carefully and Intentionally nurtured, grown and built.

Nothing should be forced! Not even the least relationships.

If your relationship with someone can flow naturally., There certainly is a problem. Even if not now, there certainly would be a problem.

Don't let love, cloud your thinking in making a wrong decision of a person as a spouse, or a life partner.

Marrying late is way better than marrying WRONG.

There isn't any failed relationship, that ended without foreseen signs earlier on. There were signs., Great ones! But you were too in love to notice.

If you are an intentional and sincere person., Don't think any other person would be honest, sincere and straightforward personas.

You may not like someone, and be brave enough to tell the person you don't. Reason why?

Sometimes, because you just don't want to have anything to do with that person,

You don't want to waste your time on something confidence wouldn't last.

You just want to do the person the Favour of knowing you aren't interested then move on.

Whichever way., It's best!

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Because in the actual sense, you saved the person a lot. Ranging from emotional trauma he/she may experience later on when you finally give him/her the shocker breakup., Precious time, money, or pleasure.

To me, I prefer when someone tells me the ways things are. No matter how bad I feel, it's best to get disappointed the initial, then heartbroken when I'm fully into you.

As I said, this is for me. I don't know about you!

we are different people, with different perspectives of life and how we interpret them, alongside Relationships.

Even when we are cheats, we still want love, in the most genuine way we can get.

Humans for you!

When someone is silently giving you tips, of lack of interest in you, and the relationship you both share., Try your possible best to understand perfectly. Sometimes without words, because you definitely can.

If a blind man can still find his way around his house, which is familiar You too should be to know when someone isn't into you anymore. So long as you know that person, you should know when you aren't regarded anymore., When you less care for given attention.

You should know when only you keep carrying that relationship on your small head., And when your partner is always saying he's busy, and can't even call or send a text to anyone. You have to put yourself together.

You should know when your partner has silently trekked out of the relationship, leaving just you to date yourself, literally!

If you aren't in the know of all of these when it happens., Maybe you have been an overtime victim of this. Here is what would help you.

Try to understand that you don't have to keep making up excuses for them each time they falter gravely. If you take them seriously, they should take you too. If they can't., Please save your energy and time for someone who deserves you.

✓ Be observant enough to know when a guy/lady is tired of you. Yes, as humans, we are products too, somehow! People's, when familiar with us could get tired of us. It's natural. The fact is., Be observant enough to be able to pinpoint when exactly that person has suddenly loosed interest in you. It would help you prepare your mind for what is to come.

✓Take note of the red flags in a relationship. Don't make excuses for someone who doesn't see you as a priority. Especially the ladies. Y'all are fond of understanding what shouldn't be understood at all., Mostly! I know you have a kind heart, and you are more understanding compared to a man., But that doesn't mean you should tolerate everything at the expense of your Tolerant, alright. But!

Know when to put an end to your tolerance, and let them fight and prove themselves worthy to get back to you. (Applicable for guys too)

✓Take note of body language. Their rate of care and attention.

The word "I love you", can be faked a million times, but "Attention, Care!" A person never gives this two to who he/she doesn't have a soft spot for.

✓Always know that even the perfect couples, even if they get married

There will be so many excuses regarding why they find it difficult.

If any of this happens., You should know it is a red flag.

... "A man creates time for what he cherishes".And always know this.,

Don't ever see yourself too small or less than you are, you deserve to be loved real hard.

You are amazing and you deserve the best of every relationship you could ever think of.

Thanks for reading this, hope you have learned? See you tomorrow and stay tuned.

17 Dec.2021, A CandyBoy publishment