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What We See That Others Don't

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Ever wondered why some people treat you so strangely, you would have expect a different and more natural feeling but anytime they get to see you, they act differently, you know they've definitely seen something in you that you don't. Most times we see ourselves the main actors in a movie, I guess everyone does, because we all can only feel ourselve, we can't only motivate ourselves and dream for ourselves, therefore we sometimes feel life is all a story and we are the main actors, everyone and everything else is playing a supporting role to help the movie but we are the main people everyone should be looking out for, and with this we'd expect everyone to treat us with importance but they mostly don't, this upsetting sometimes.

No wonder when we get upset we feel calm, because we they movie hasn't ended and it'll surely get to the point where we can teach them a lesson, as though we authored the script of life. Maybe it's a believe that whatsoever goes around, comes around. Maybe it's a believe that karma would take its course, or yet we may just be day dreaming. Personally I feel it's good we think of ourselves such although its not entirely true, as it show as good boost of self esteem which would motivate us into going that extra miles just cause we believe we can.

However, do we feel its okay to speak to anyone as we please, cause we are that so important and life can't be working against us. Indeed as this level of self confidence has it's good side it also undoubtedly has it's bad effects, like you now expect everyone to be nice to you and if they don't then they are bad people, and you feel okay not be nice to others, oh what does it matter, I am the one who's important, they would get over it. Such people has this needs to be reminded that they are also normal with nothing out of the ordinary so they should come off their high horses.

Maybe when they get to be put in their place then they would be calm and their pride would lessen so they can act and be better humans, you know the truth is life doesn't revolve around you and you alone, that is the truth, although we mostly feel the opposite. I too am quite guilty, especially in a competition with others I'll just expect things to work out to my favour, like it can only be me who the crown fits perfectly. Funny enough sometimes I've lost and felt like the competition is not over, maybe they'll call me back, oh can I lose, little me could ponder as though I was acting a movie for real, eventually I go home sad, feeling off. Well I learnt right now, you know life teaches.

That's right, we all would learn right, cause life teaches, as much as we want to feel like the only boy or girl in the world, life would continue to teach us on how there are billions of people existing and God cares for us all the same. So while you feel life is centered around you, you should also know I feel the same too, oh including that insane man across the street, your employee feels same way too, he could be feeling like he would get a bigger one than yours tomorrow, but what can you do it's how he feels, it doesn't make it true, how about you who feels their life would ruin if you sack them so you act so strict, its how we feel it doesn't make it true.

Nevertheless, I must commend the positive effect even as I have shun the negative, there are some good to feeling this way, however I hope we can balance it. Feeling like life is revolving around you, with God and his Angel's taking you alone as the main highlight of earth, can prove positive too to some extent. This can increase you confidence that you try out crazy things hoping with more certainty that it would work out. You could literally be in a competition with people and feel like it's you, it has got to be you, while others might be scared with cold feet, you're there feeling confident like they all mean nothing. You have to win, and most times such confidence birth forth victory for real.

Other times it doesn't, and that should make you realize that it isn't about who's important or not, its about earning the win for real. It's not the world always backing you up, or mother nature preferring your face to others, its mainly about how well you've earned your spot, you can choose to be lazy just strolling around and expecting to be treated with importance everywhere, surely you'll learn how no one truly cares and you just have to take care of yourself first and groom you into the you you want others to see, then they can see you for who you worked on yourself to be and treat you with such respect. The celebrated celebrities are not celebrated cause mother nature loves them more, they all have something they do and do so well that the work celebrates, oh yes they worked hard.

Hopefully we can strike a balance, seeing this feeling of self importance can be good as well as bad. For me I like to feel like things would work out perfectly for me especially in a competition, it raises my hope and it makes me not give up yet until the final whistle, however I know better than to think everyone else is secondary and treating them such, life has taught me that some people would be preferred to me as well as some i would be preferred to others, but it doesn't mean anyone is more useless, as God still loves us equally. It's still has to do with how well we have earned what we want to achieve. So we all have to work it out to becoming what we hope for. You want to be treated like a king or queen, it is going to be by hardwork, and the hardwork starts now.

It takes lot for others to see what we see in ourselves, however with hardwork and consistency we can enforce it into their sight. Thanks for reading guys, I'll appreciate your likes, comment and subscriptions, you are all important to me. Stay loved.

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My father once advice me, "Be flexible, treat others just how they treat you" and I think its a right thing to do. Because others will sometimes take advantage of you being nice to them

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1 month ago

That's a wise saying from dad, sometimes people would take advantage of our niceness.

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1 month ago

Yes, that's why we have to be flexible

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That's so right

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1 month ago

Each of us has a day. If we have fall, there will certainly be a raise also. Life is a big lesson. Each day you learn something new. Life should move on. Never let the oppressed stop you. Kudos to life's journey.

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Oh yes, kudos to life's journey, enjoy the process, feel every living day.

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1 month ago

I like what your getting at... more so when you said that most people see themselves as the main character of their own story yet they fail to realize that you can as well be the villain in someone else's story.

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1 month ago

Lol, that's right, that's a nice twist to it, that way you would wonder who would truly win. Base of the matter is just be good to everyone, we don't have to hate and disrespect, we dont have to be friends either, but just be good.

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1 month ago

Exactly, some people treat us badly. Maybe we actually don't deserve to be treated like that way. Impactful writing dear. Loved this.

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Thanks a lot, well we sure do deserve to be treated with as much respect as anyone else, if anyone treat us bad then they need to change, cause every one is important, and no one is more important than the other.

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