Love indeed is a beautiful thing, the world we live in is so full of many issues, most of which you just want to not ponder upon cause it isn't so pleasant, however there are other things that helps take the mind away from its worries and among all that is love. Love truly helps, the feeling is Divine, one can love and not care about the world any more, just you and your lover, no one else. When we get that special one who holds a special place in our hearts, it would be so great if we learn to make them feel special. It's more like an office held, anyone who is enthroned to that office should be treated as such.
Although I must agree that so many reasons exist as to why someone would want to hide his love from people, tangible reasons infact but hey most of the reasons are wrong reasons. Well most things comprises of both good and bad right. So yea, there are good reasons as well as there are totally wrong reasons. Yet in the good reasons you'll discover that it really isn't worth it. No one likes to be hiding, make him or her feel important, the love is sweeter when you know he isn't ashamed of you, it gives more security to the relationship.
Sometimes we must agree that no one is perfect and we must just make up our mind about one person and stick to him or her, unless you're a polygamist, then you can go by your culture, but on the normal no one loves to share, if you are mine, then you're mine alone, don't go about getting another. Already it loses its specialty, its pride knowing that it isn't you alone owning the person, then what's so special, this is applicable to both male and female, no man what to share his girl with another, and no lady likewise want to share their man, we all want to feel special, and it's our sole responsibility to make our partner feel better.
Now we see the reason for public proposals, a clear indication that I choose you over everyone else, you're so special to me, I so much prefer you to the world. These to some people is so unnecessary, though I feel they are somewhat scared of rejection, to others it's so necessary. A special person to you needs to know he or she is special, apart from the obvious fact that it makes them feel good, it also gives more assurance that this partner of mine is serious about me. Infact there is no need to consider and fret of rejection, especially as a man because you knew what you want and went for it, sadly life happens and the person didn't agree, well you feel bad and soon move on.
Maybe I dwell on partners too much, we shouldn't think this applies to only our partners alone, no, so many people are special to us, some from family, some from actions done, we aren't wrong to make them know that they mean a lot to you. As parents telling your kids "I love you" sends a good feeling down the spine, it increases the connection, in some homes, the kids-parents connection isn't so strong and while it could be other serious issues, it could also be resolved by an expression of affection. Don't find it hard to be expressive, you aren't too forward or embarrased when you're expressing your feelings.
Recently spoke with a married friend who I saw to be very expressive, he could see you in the morning and use over 10 minutes to compliment you, by the end of your time with him, you must leave with a huge smile on your face, though he did it alone to few people whom he was very close to, people could be funny and get the wrong ideas you know. So recently I was telling him how easy he does it, I don't think I can just see you and start complimenting you, you may feel I want a favor from you, cause that would be very unusually of me. However he replied me and his response opened my eyes to a lot of insight.
According to him, at first he wasn't that guy to be doing all that, he got married and they were just living normal I guess, and discusssion, funtime, sex , everything was just normal, then he really wanted to spice things up, he was still young, he needs that excitment in his life, and he principles can't allow him cheat on his wife, so after much thoughts and research he decided to spice things up, amidst buying gifts and frequently doing fun stuffs, he imbibed the attitude of expressing his love for his wife, oh my love you're beautiful, no you're extremely beautiful, did you change your cream cause you have a different glow today.... this got her smiling and the smiling positions the mood well, the food got better, the normal discussions got more interesting, sex was wow, cause he was happy and she was happy.
Why not, what's the hold up, why are you shying from expressing those heartfelt love to those who matter. Well there's firstly nothing to lose, and no point to be ashamed, as long as they are worth it, then they are worth being allowed to know. Good friends exist that have done so much already, parents has always been making sacrifices, partners has been by you through thick and thin, your children are the best gift of God to you, come on, don't be ashamed to tell it to the world, yeah, this is coming from me, I love you guys.
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