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Very essential we know our worth, it's not a matter of pride or over confidence, sometimes it's just we knowing our worth. Sometimes we wake up to the eye opening fact that I deserve better than I get, and there comes the dissatisfaction to continue. It happens every day and every time as far as we can be truthful to ourselves. Ever wondered why a beautiful girl Carries herself as gold on high demand, its simply because she truly is on high demand, although at the early stage of her life she may be careless, playful, keeping a lot of friends, but the day she realizes that she can get more than she has presently, she begins to act the part, and of course she does enjoy it.

These often backfire though, so there's need for a critical evaluation of oneself, are you truly worth this or you're only just raising up hopes. Reason because many have been too forward, without getting the necessary skills or having the needed attributes, they had believed in themselves that they were worth more, but when the test came, they discovered that they were not yet there, worst still they lost everything. So we do need to be cautious about it, more reason why we need to know, know your worth is what I said, so know your worth. And be very sure about it, this helps our confidence level.

One benefits to knowing our worths is that it brings to us our due respect and rewards. Sometimes we see this happens especially in a work space, a situation where the boss knows little compared to those really doing the job, yet that key worker gets paid peanut, he could bear for a long time because he is in dire need of it, but as soon as it gets comfortable at least, it starts to demand for more, and luckily should get more, or move on to other better offers available to him. We know our worth for happiness sake, often we go through a lot trying to acquire the skill set we posses currently, we would be happy if only we earn the due compensation or more.

A graduate must have spent time reading and attending course lectures, sat for exams and proved his or herself worthy of the degree, more reason why you don't see them settling for less unless for dire situations. The economy and businesses too should not offer them less, as a way to encourage other younger ones to take time in grooming and equipping their self through schools or any learning institution. When someone stands their ground about their worth on any particular setting, before you criticize, take out time to evaluate if the supposed person is truly worth it. Its actually wrong to be given below your worth, when we should be enjoying more.

Often likened to pride I presume, often cause of the manner at which we demand our due compensations. Its good we also note that since we are speaking to humans and supposed head, cause a junior wouldn't be in a position to increase your pay, so if we are speaking to our superiors we must put their emotions in check to, speak your mind without getting them furious or angry, what we want is a revaluation of pay or due benefits, a tended up chaotic result is highly unwanted. Let the tone of voice be in check, all protocols duly observed, all this doesn't stop the actions we would take should they refuse.

Also in the other areas where our worth should be known, like in the area of relationships, no one deserves to be treated less in a relationship, to this I say, know your worth. Yea yea we all say "I am very lucky to have you" or "I don't deserve you, you're too good or lovely ", we all say that in order to make our spouse feel good and happy. He or She wouldn't go doing bad stuffs and returning back to say, you know you don't deserve me, so what ever I do you've got to be happy with it, you would not agree to that. So in relationships we must know what and what not to accept, you know when best to walk away.

Many ladies has been mercilessly beaten up and cajoled to stay with that same boxer of a husband, don't get angry yet, cause likewise some men has faced hell from the nagging unsupportive partner and still being cajoled to stick to her, they say there are no good men outside, so you should manage that which God has placed in your hands. Come on, there are a million and one good and responsible people out there, we can't afford to live an unhappy life, no not in this earth. Enough worries exist already, let's not allow more worries over situations we can easily change via our concious decisions.

In all let's know our worth, and just incase we realize we aren't yet worth what we aspire for, we shouldn't feel down because we can still work towards it. We can still grow into it, or simply work to increase our self values. We all want better for ourselves and it's a good thing to demand for better. Let's not stop and get weary in the current position not suitable to our taste, keep working, keep learning, when the time is right, we would get our due reward or demand for it. Know you worth guys, you deserve it.

Thanks for reading everyone, hope your day is going splendid. Thanks for the continuous support guys. One love.

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If you have a high level of self-worth, you will view yourself favourably and have the utmost faith that you can set and achieve your goals. More importantly, you will tell yourself (and genuinely believe!) that you deserve good things. ... Having self-worth is also linked to having a strong sense of confidence.

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Yes you're right, and indeed its very similar to confidence, we all need this level of confidence, especially in our craft.

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I was thinking to write about this topic & you did. Matter of fact, you wrote perfectly than me.

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Don't say that, I know you'll do much more than I did, you're superb.

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I'm honoured. But I know about your capabilities.

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I'm honoured sir, I know about your capacity too sir.

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