Join 83,417 users already on read.cash

Can A Broke Man Find Love?

17 42
Avatar for Brilliance
Written by   153
3 months ago

I really need your opinions on this subject matter, how easy is it to get love as a man that is without money. I know what the movies tells us but it seems quite different from reality, it's as though we become invisible when we are incapable of providing. Of course as a man, we ought to ensure we take in charge of the responsibilities, it doesn't speak well and it's rather unfair to the rest of the household if we can't take care of them or try at least. 1 Timothy 5 vs 8 also gave a biblical claim to this saying any man who cannot provide for his home is worst than an infidel, but we don't become rich all of a sudden.

However before the riches or let's say comfort at least comes, there is a process, I mean a time for working and striving, would it be fair to wait until all men are made before they experience love. I don't think so. And by love I don't only mean the relationship love, even in our society, there seems to be no love for the broke. When there is no Money it may seem as though you've lost your voice, and as soon as the money arrives, you see many smiling faces around and begin to wonder if the money announced itself. I'm yet not comfortable with the standards, I'm not sure people are acting rightly.

At first it was annoying, I mean very annoying. The time when you need the love and attention, when you'll know that this love is genuine and true, cause you can't tie their care to anything else but care, you'll see them drifting away, but that moment when you have it already, infact you can get it without ease, and it doesn't matter much to you anymore, boom you start seeing the love all around. No wonder the rich don't care much and act busy to all those many people seeking their attention, where we you all when times were rough? I feel people need to choose from their hearts and not base on pocket sizes.

I don't mean we must love everyone who is broke, because we feel guilty or have pity, what I'm saying is for those who knows how they truly feel about the man, but are depriving theirselves of their heart desires because the man is broke, they aren't judging right. There should be a new judging method, not the usual or causal way as though life is a business transaction. There are more things to appeal to the heart than money, money inclusive but there are other things, things money cannot buy. Money can never create a good man.

Oh my disappointment whenever I see parents talk their daughters out of relationships cause the guy is financially incapable. It really gets to me, maybe cause it has happened to me or maybe because I still feel the push back, or maybe because love wasn't meant to be this way, maybe because the world is quickly turning into hypocrites. Trying to be close to the rich alone, or trying to be close to the in a relationship those who can offer the expensive lifestyle, I hope it doesn't push many guys into crime and quick schemes to get rich.

On the second hand I truly can't blame them, on the other hand, I can understand the plight, as everyone wishes for a better life, even the broke guy wouldn't think twice about jumping on a million dollar offer, even if it means betraying someone who has been there for them. So it cut across everyone. All I can do Is pray God comes true for everyone, and keeps providing. Rather than blame people for not wanting to accept or align with that broke guy, I'll take encourage the broke guy to try stepping up and doing better. Poverty indeed is a disease, no one truly wants it, no one can like coping with it.

The streets are not friendly to the broke man, it has always been that way. Only those who are wise enough to know changes happens to everyone won't be harsh to the broke, just incase tomorrow turns around, another motives could be when the broke guy is valuable, there's something he's needed for, could be anything even as little as funny, listening ears, handsome, could anything that makes them wanted, apart from these, there's no reason for anyone being around someone who would most probably keep begging them for assistance. It's a life programmed way I guess.

Don't get angry anymore, with the way the world pushes away the poor and accepts the rich, rather take it as a motivation to push harder, when we are wealthy for ourselves, we can decide to bring as much broke people closer and start changing the world from there. Also bearing in mind that a change can happen at any time, so we shouldn't treat anyone as less than human all cause they are broke. Also for relationship be careful enough to pray and follow your heart, this way you don't miss it on the long run. So back to my question, Do you think the society offers any love to a broke person?

I'll love to read your responses guys, do let me in your thoughts too. Hope you are having a nice day, keep liking, comments and subscribe If you're yet to. Stay loved guys. You all are the best.

Sponsors of Brilliance
empty

8
$ 3.64
$ 3.59 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.02 from @Princessbusayo
$ 0.02 from @Lucifer01
+ 1
Sponsors of Brilliance
empty
Avatar for Brilliance
Written by   153
3 months ago
Enjoyed this article?  Earn Bitcoin Cash by sharing it! Explain
...and you will also help the author collect more tips.

Comments

No woman wants to date or marry a broke guy. But on the flip side, they may be broke but they are supportive of their women, creative and ambitious. Being broke isn't a crime. With the right woman, who knows where such a man will be in the future. Try analyzing the situation first, It's not like he planned to stay broke for the rest of his life, a man always has plans.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

That's right, a man has plan and he's not planning on staying broke. Change is always happening.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

With the right woman to love, who knows to understand and help him all the way, both of them will grow and develop.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

Yes they can. But only at one condition. If someone worthy truly desire that person with acknowledging the situation.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

Hopefully someone worthy desires a broke man, cause he is possibly planning on not being broke.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

You can find someone that much better than before because there is no possible by God.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

That's right, God can take care of it all for us.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

See bro it's almost impossible for a man to find love when you're broke..... especially in this period that we are now..... everyone is broken and trust is hard to find out more about this days.... Wish u good luck bro

$ 0.03
3 months ago

Hahaha, I understand you bro, indeed its not an easy one for a broke man, it's not an easy world too. Lol... we would win surely. 💪💪

$ 0.00
3 months ago

Yeah I wish so

$ 0.00
3 months ago

It is hard for a man who doesn't have money to see a wife because ladies of nowadays want to marry a man who is rich and can take care of them, they don't want to suffer at all.

But what they don't understand is that, it is better to support a man in becoming someone great.

$ 0.03
3 months ago

I do understand you, its just the sad reality of the times we are in. Hopefully it gets better for everyone and we don't miss it.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

Yes of course, maybe not now or tommorrow because God has plan on us and we must wait and see. We have our own happiness to be achieved to find love or given by destiny.

$ 0.03
3 months ago

So right, God has his special plans for everyone. Let's wait in hope and positivity. 💪

$ 0.00
3 months ago

One's heart desires can come from the accumulated amount of inbuilt love we have for our fellows whether we like it or not but to say a man's brokenness is an excuse for not paying him much attention is a sure gate to undermining our set priorities in life and as we know, the bone they say shall rise again. For real, it will surely rise again one day and that's exactly how the life of a man is

$ 0.03
3 months ago

I like this, we shouldn't write anyone off completely. Dry bones shall rise again and it would soon.

$ 0.00
3 months ago

Exactly it will surely rise again....but do these women of nowadays understand that? No I don't think so, just few of them do and not even totally.

$ 0.00
3 months ago