Nakow buti dito mo pinost to. Kung sa labas to, baka ma bash ka lang hahaha pero I agree sa mga punto mo. Malaki talaga role ng mga magulang sa paghubog ng pagkatao ng mga bata. Nakakalungkot lang kasi pinapabayaan na lang ng mga magulang anak nila. Wala na din kasi respeto mga bata sa sarili nila pati sa mga magulang. Hays.

Sa title pa lang na hook na agad ako eh. Totoo, madam. Dapat laging nakabantay ang mga magulang kasi kung hindi, anong trabaho nila? We can't let the children learn unwanted things because we are not there to guide them

That's true ,kaya dapat anjan palagi ang parents nag babantay kahit malaki na sila kasi ,this are the possibilities na pwede nilang gawin ,kung napapansin nilang papalayo ang loob ng gam parents sa bata .

Its sad but what you all mentioned above is true po. There are young girls who plays with fire for fund thinking that its the only easy way for them to get out from poverty. Their parents should always look to them.

Louder please!!! Grabe na talaga ngaun madam. Meron akong nakitang live video sa FB recently, sobrang sexy ng teeny cguro nsa 15-16 y.o. dami comments halos guys of course, I'm curious kung ano gagawin nya sa live, so I stayed a minute, then the views soared like 500+ the teeny got excite na dumami views at tinawag nya mom nya, nakita ko ung mom na excite rin! and, I was like omg bkit ganito mga nanay nila, suportado mga anak na halos hubad na online?

That's true. In the name of money or even fame. Nagganyan sila. Parents are the first one responsible for such act, i mean letting go of their daughters with such thin and shortest fabrics🤦‍♀️

It is very sad Mrs P!

Check na check sis uy. Marami dito sa pinas yan. Hays. Yung sa amin parang kinukunsenti pa ng mga magulang. 😑

This is a deep post... 100% agree with everything you said about protecting our daughters... i see so many young girls on insta and wonder "how did you Mom and dad leave you alone with your phone so that you can post seductie dances?? where are they??" .. When I was young, my parents did not even allow me to leave the house to next street without permission lol... and forget laptops... we used to go an internet cafe for an hour or so, there also, we used to have surveillance... So scared and worried for girls this generation...

One thing that bothered me in this post is about telling some stereotypical metophors like ....."put a carot in front of bunny, it's gonna take a bite".... "put meat in front of lion and expect lion not to react"........ That is purely victim blaming because saying "he did that because she did that"...... she posing in her bikini STILL DOES NOT give him a right to do predatory stuff... because neither she is a meat, nor he is a lion lol...

Totally agree. Parents should be aware of what their children watch, both male and female. Because pornography does not differentiate between genders. The way young girls dress nowadays is too exaggerated. Interesting article, as always.

Nakakalungkot na katotohanan ate. Tama po kayo and this article needs to be spread for awareness of everybody. Hays, kawawa talaga yung mga batang naiimpluwensyahan.

Hmmm am really shocked to see how little girls go astray because of social media meanwhile their parents are not aware of how dangerous it is Well may God help them

Dahil sa kahirapan :( kumakapit sa oatalim ang iba. peru yung tungkol sa respito na hinihingi ng nag popost ng naka bra panties, sexy daw. "it's just a fashion" they always say. pag pinag babawalan sila. nakakainis lang, gano ba ka importante ang ka sexyhan yung tipong kita na singit haha tapos pag nabastos! respito ang hihingin . wait! parang mali. haha well, girl, matatawag padin naman kayung sexy but not that way! many of us misunderstood the wor sexy. (deep breath) sexy is not about wearing shorts or backless na damit. pakinisan ng balat or whatsoever you can wear simple, decent cover your body, Give respect your self first. Still we can call you sexy. 😇

Naalala ko blackpink sa title mo sis hehe.
Iba na talaga kabataan ngayon mas agressive sila at expose sa mga bagay na nakakasama para sa kanila.

Sad reality. Most of the young ones nowadays are so showy of their body both on social media and in real life. They thought it was nice because they can gain floods of likes and comments in their post or profile.

These situations are not new, but it had its boom with the internet and then with camera phones. It also touches any society, but the most vulnerable are the third world countries, there are even parents who sell their daughters or pervert them to get money, in this case the internet has nothing to do.

I have neighbor who likes to play with fire in search for funds. And I can say she's successful lol because she has now owned a lot. She was also able to provide her children's needs but in a wrong way. I hope she'll not be lazy one day and realize that she should make a decent living.

Debate mi daduma dayta ken chloe jay choice of clothes hehe

That's is the sad reality I think we should protect our daughters from the start I mean from the born again. I saw many parent support their daughters from the start thinking that she is so young and we don't care what other people say. But later they regret and blame daughter that she is doing this. May God bless everyone Thank you mate for your thoughts.

Parents and society at large have roles to play in guiding our young ones on a better path. Many youngsters are influenced by their peers. I have seen a pastor's daughter dress like a whore on campus, something she will never do at home. Though some parents are ignorant Nd some even encourage it, many are influenced by factors beyond parents' control.

This is so true, this is what currently happening right now. Agree po ako sa lahat ng sinabi mo ate. Some teens aren't born and exposed to pornography, some are just influenced by poverty and tourism money. It's sad to think na most teens or even kids are nowadays are already exposed to child pornography and what's more disturbing is that the one who influenced them are their parents. And all because of poverty.

The bad side of Internet indeed, sa murang isip nadidiscover na kasi ang dapat hindi pa LOL. Well, ako din baka over protected din ako if mag daughter na hahaha.

Apt, it is so sad to see girls who think they are smart and can play the cat and mouse game well, gone are the days were integrity and dignity matters but what matters now is gifts, cash and kind . It is well

Thia post of yours is really sensitive ate bloghound. You know if you did post this on a social media like facebook or twitter. You know what will gonna happen. A bunches of people gonna be angry at you. But you posted it here I'm read.caeh where most of the people is open minded and not just focus on one side. I'm also thinking the same way as you, but choose to shut my voice for they will gonna name me victim blamer. But who wouldn't gonna take a bite when their food is in front of them? That's sad reality everyone should think po. GoodMorningg

Some parents are even proud of what their kids are doing, no basic decency and discipline. As if it helps them raise their social status yet in the end when something happens, their reputation gets destroyed.

Your post is quite thought-provoking and should not be overlooked. Sometimes I wonder if some of these parents care about their children's safety when they allow them to go out of the house dressed like call girls.

The social platform has given lots of freedom that has been taken for granted. There are a lot of things we can do to earn a living aside from exposing or seducing a particular gender.

I don't want to believe poverty led them there, they are just looking for a quick way out of poverty instead of building bridges to cross over it.

Sad reality nowadays. The cases of teenage pregnancy is becoming a trend too. There were so many factors to be blamed why it is happening now, but I do believe it still parents job to guide their children into the right path specially at a very young age.

By the way sis when I read the title of your article napasearch ako sa you tube ng kanta ng blackpink #fangirlmodeon 😅

1. Parents should check out their kids profile time to time. ( In absence of their kids)
2. There should be a proper sex education.
3. Parents should tell their kids about good touch and bad touch.

I have a friend in fb who is the daughter of my colleague, who keeps on posting indecent post and sexy pictures. Her parents are also active fb users, i wonder if the parents are aware of their daughter’s posts, and is just ok with them. I’m not her mom but I felt awkward seeing her posts so I unfollowed her. These young ladies these days… 🤦‍♀️

I saw some of my students when I was a practice teacher posted sexy photos of them. May mga pasayaw-sayaw pa na sobrang eksi ng kanilang mga suot. Nakakaaalarma siya knowing na ang social media is so open for everyone. At ang babata pa nila.

Ahh... this is truly an article that needs to be shared all across social media. I'm a boy so if I tried commenting about something like this on social media, I'll get bashed by everyone saying that it's just me having a dirty mind and stuff.

I know that everyone has their own right to choose what they use in public places, but please girls, know the dangers of playing with fire. I also agree that this is one of the things that parents should teach their children. Not about the dangers of wearing certain clothing, but to learn 'decency' and 'norm' and the dangers of wearing certain items. Like you shouldn't be showing all your jewelry in places that are full of thieves.

I hope nobody got offended by this. I mean no harm to anyone and was just agreeing with the writer.

Yung mga ka-age ko ate na mga babae, if ever na babasahin nila yan, they would say na wala dapat kayong pakialam sa susuotin namin kasi nga “mY bOdy, mY rUles”. However, di po nila alam or aware na para rin naman po yon sa ikakabuti nila. Wala pong magnanasa na lalaki kung hindi nila halos ipinapakita ang naluluwa nila. Relatively, I just want to imply that prevention is better than cure. Kahit sabihin na natin na noong unang panahon po, may rapist na pero mahaba ang suot nila, NUNG UNANG PANAHON pa po yon. Iba na sa ngayon, kaya ang pinakaimportante po talaga at maging responsible tayo sa ating lifestyle. Yung mga babaeng tiktokers, tuwad ng tuwad haha. Then kapag lalaki naman, kaldag ng kaldag HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA.

My husband pag may nakikita kaming ang suot ay talaga namang kulang na lang ay maghubad lalo pat bata ang sasabihin nya ay hindi daw makakalabas si Tia ng ganon ang suot. Pero sa totoo lang kahit san ka magpunta dito mga walang bra kahit mga teen lang ang edad ay marami, minsan kasama pa mga magulang. Pero dahil anak ko lang ang may say ako, hindi ko talaga papayagang magsusuot to ng halos pati kaluluwa ay kita na.

Naku, this happens a lot in our country, worse, I have seen a lot of parents who would start dressing their babies in a sexy way, it might be cute but tendencies are, the baby grows up thinking this is the normal way...

about video calls, this is true and sad to say, cebu has been listed as number one in providing these video calls with kids involved in them. I have been affiliated with a foundation that offers psychological services for those kids who had traumatic experiences. most of them were abused by their own relatives, worst parents...

in lapulapu city, fishermen stopped fishing and neighbors scratched their heads bakit nagka TV si fisherman, nakapatayo ng bahay,,etc, found out later, to pala pangkabuhayan nya... its just sad...

This happens so much nowadays. It's sad but true. There are many factors, as you said, poverty is one of them. But also the lack of values. And as parents, we have a huge responsibility that we cannot avoid.

Well said, the predator will be active and alive if the prey do a move. Internet or any social media is a huge platform, we interact with different people with different mindset. When we post, we must be ready on the people say. Also, curiosity will always kill a cut.

tumpak, tayo talaga ang masisisi din bakit mawalan ng respito ang ibang tao sa atin, huhusgahan nila tayo basi sa mga nakikita nila, kaya dapat maging msingat tayo sa mga ginagawa natin

I remember nun 2nd year high school ako. Ang topic namin noon sa GMRC is about mga rape and sexual harrasment sa mga babae. Then ako lang yata ang nagtaas ng kamay na iba ang sagot sa lahat and I was bullied that time. Sabi ko kasi, "Dapat tayong mga babae eh maging responsible sa mga sinusuot natin. Ayaw nating maharass or marape pero ang sinusuot natin eh halos litaw na ang kaluluwa. " Nagalit sa akin yun isa kong kaklase, sabi nya kahit naman daw ano ang suot eh nirirape pa din. Although may point naman sya pero di din nya nakuha yun point ko. After that nabully ako😅😂 But at least nasabi ko un gusto ko.

This also happens frequently in my country. Sometimes girls don't leave the house dressed like that. They dress like that in a public restroom or at a friend's house. They already have their clothes saved for such an occasion and they go out to their challenge. I think it is a problem of not communicating properly. It's not the same for a mother to tell her daughter not to do those things in an imposing way as it is for the mother to communicate by explaining to the daughter why she shouldn't do those things. To impose is to force, to converse is to reach an agreement.

This is maddening really... can't say anymore. I remember a post I've come across many months ago about guys or boys getting paid to pose nude or dance live online.

I would not have imagined when I was a kid or a teenager, that a few years later girls would dress like that. The thing is they want to be seen and not just as a cute girl, but they want to show more. They shouldn't.

I have a teenager daughter and I always remind her about social media and I am glad that she's not into wearing sexy outfit. She's like me who loves to look boyish

That´s why I always consider the same thing: Social networks are neither for kids nor teens! The big trouble here is the lack of responsibility their parents have in order to keep the kids in a good way. They do not monitor their children during the time they spend on the network. Like the teen in the story, there is a big amount of girls "playing with fire" and they think there are no consequences.

Parents must be aware about what your children do. Definitively yes.

The society we find ourselves is becoming unbearable with what we expose our minds to on daily basis. The mind is where we often take decisions that leads to play play with fire.

When the mind conceive a things and pondered upon over time, such things eventually becomes a reality over time despite the fire around it.

There was a time I told myself I won't do a thing but because I was still playing around it makes me still want to touch it again and again. It is only when we flee far away from fire, I believe only then can we be safe from fire fire fire...

We don't watch what we don't want, if you don't want to be burn by fire, don't play around it nor stand watching.

Nice piece there ... 👌

Peace

OkanlaDavid

Parents are always with the big responsibility of taking good and proper care of the children. But I want to believe that the world is getting changed day by day, I see some children with good upbringing who decide to be wayward on their own.

Many parents are tired of their own children because even despite the close monitoring they give them they still remain adamant and have chosen their own path.

All we can do is to keep praying and hoping that our own children will not be wayward, that they would be obedient and yield to instructions.

Reality nowadays. So sad that there are a lot of young woman, teenagers to be exact who let their self become a prey to disrespect.

This is a great article sis. This is a great reminder for everyone especially with the parents and all the young teens. Parents should always monitor with their daughters and teach them the right way on how to give a respect themselves. Including the social medias account, the behaviors and on how to get dress up for themselves. A danger possible situations always follow them if they don't know how to make a decent ways.

Take care always sis..🙏

Parents must always guide their child in using their mobile phones or computers. They need to check their circle of friends in their kid's social media accounts to protect them from any potential predators as you have mentioned.

It's true. Parents are more like 'I'll buy you a smart phone because you say you need it too, because your classmate got it too'. They even take pride that their kids got mobile at an early age.

My mom would always say that some girls are not respected because of how they dress. And I agree.

Marami po talaga akong nakikitang mga mas bata saakin na grabe na manamit:> kahit sinasabihan akong mukang tomboy manamit kasi malalaki daw po t-shirt na sinusuot ko🤧I rolled my eyes 👀 bilang sagot. By the way this article is very interesting!!! 💯💯

Social media has now became a nasty place for those types of people. I have seen my own cousin suffering for this types of harassment. Sexual abuse, violence, harassment are now very common. Strict monitoring must be ensured. But alas! No proper steps are taken. 😔

Nakakatakot na talaga sa panahon ngayon. Madalas palaging sisi sa ganyan magulang e

Nakaka panghinayang ang mga kabataang naliligaw ng landas,mga batang di naaruga ng maganda,mga batang ibinibigay ang lahat ng layaw. Diko sinasabing kasalanan ng parents pero dapat na lagi din ginaguide ang kabataan sa magandang paraan. Ang iba naliligaw ng landas sa sobrang spoiled minsan sanhi ng broken family.

I love this article Sis, it is an eye-opener to parents especially with daughters. I hope a lot of parents can read this article. Young girls need to be guided by their parents especially their use of technology and the internet and their association with their peers. These young girls are victims of misguidance and poverty. Parents are the ones to be blamed if their children will lead astray. The brought up of these children plays a great role in what they become in society.

True sis.. Equal responsibility yan.. you set a trigger then act all innocent pag may nagreact.. ngarrf! ..

You can not segregate the human heart from the environment in which he lives... The transformation of the individual and society goes hand to hand....

I totally agree sis. May nakita ako dati sa FB na page mga 10 pa ata yung bata at kung manamit daig pa ako. I reported the page. The parents allowed her to do that for money and fame. Tsk tsk..Decency should start at home.

✊✊that is the simple truth, all over social media you see girls and women showing revealing photos but then come out and say they dnt want to be seen as sexual objects alone🙄 ''Dont judge a book by how they look" if you dont want to be judged dont look that way🤷