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Learn How To Say Sorry.

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2 months ago

I was searching for some articles to read and I found one. It was about learning how to say sorry. I have met a lot of people and I am very sure that you have also met different kinds of people. We all are indeed different people from different homes with different ways of reasoning. This means that we may not agree on the same thing. You may agree on this and I may agree on that simply because we are different people and we have lived in different areas and we have different experiences.

Let's talk about learning how to say sorry. Let me share and experience with you all. I once dated a guy that we are always having some issues to sort or talk about every day. Most times it was always about the guy cheating on me but I realized that I will always be the one to say sorry. I think it is normal to say sorry simply because you want peace to reign and if you want peace to reign, one of both parties needs to succumb to the other so that peace will reign.

I did this a lot as long as the relationship lasted. And one thing we should know is that if you are in a relationship with somebody, you should know what the person is capable of and you should know the kind of person that you deal with. I knew it does not know how to apologize or say sorry so I always take the blame on myself just for peace to reign.

Guess what? It worked out. Me saying sorry made the relationship last for a while but we still broke up due to other issues. Have you ever said sorry when you were right? I know how sad it feels that you are apologizing for something that you didn't do wrong. It should make you upset. Yes!! We are human beings and these things are bound to happen. I also do not like to say to me whenever I am not wrong but when I realize that my partner is not ready to say sorry too I just have to say it because I want peace to reign.

What will you achieve when you say sorry? I mentioned it earlier. You will achieve peace. Do you think peace is not an achievement? If you think it is not, then what is it? Do you know how many people are praying for them to be at peace? Peace is an achievement on its own.Saying sorry also makes you respected. It's a lot of courage to take the blame upon yourself just because you want to succumb to your partner. It takes maturity to do that. Your partner or whoever you deal with will also respect you for that.

That's aside. Why can't you say sorry? I think it is pride. Pride is the major reason you wouldn't want to say sorry. What's the pride for? Why the pride? Some people may go as far as not talking to the other person again because their out is too heavy to say sorry. Pride comes before fall. Pride destroys things. If some people could say sorry when they had issues with other people, they may not have too many enemies. If some countries could say sorry and try to settle things amicably with the other country, they may not fight a war.

I used to be very proud until I got out of my home. I gained admission into the University and began to move with different people. I learnt this from them, especially my best friend. She is one of the major people who have taught me to make peace and to say sorry. I respected the opinion and took the opportunity. What if I tell you that saying sorry makes you at peace with yourself? It makes you feel free because you're holding no grudges with anybody.

Saying sorry earns you respect.

Saying sorry let's peace reign.

Saying sorry makes you at peace with yourself and with every other person.

Saying sorry lets your relationship continue and also prepares you to fight another fight. Don't get me wrong, it means you know how to fight. A good fighter resolves the fight and another one will still happen, they'll resolve it and it will continue that way.

Learn how to say sorry today!!!!

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Sorry is one magic world that can diffuse the worst situation

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2 months ago

You're right Let's learn how to always say sorry

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2 months ago

A relationship bridge by sorry culture all the time is too damaging. I had experience when I was right but I had to sorry to save a relationship. But I agreed with your thinking as well.

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2 months ago

I understand what you're saying It's true

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2 months ago

Saying sorry isn't heavy to say, it's a light word that consistently makes peace.

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2 months ago

It will also calm the mind

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2 months ago

Some people are to big to say even if it cost them something big to lose. It's arrogance. We should really learn to say sorry while it's early and appropriate. It heals and restore the broken path.

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2 months ago

You're right. It heals

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2 months ago

In a Relationship, fighting is always there but if we know how to say sorry it will resolve quickly even your are not at fault hahaha I've also experienced that my friend we low our pride just to finish the conversation

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2 months ago

Saying sorry doesn't take anything from our body but many see it as something being removed from them which is wrong. I am always quick to say sorry as for me in any situation cos I no like wahala, I dey find money na paper oooo.

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2 months ago

You did not give me credit for being your muse and inspiration for this post but I forgive you because you are my baby hahahaha.

I enjoyed your comment when you said will you die if you say sorry? Hahaha that's the truth. We need to bring down our should pads and learn to say sorry. It doesn't mean we are weak...it's a sign of strength as it earns respect.

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2 months ago

I was lazy to tag you😅😅😅.

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2 months ago

You are not lazy in other things 🤣🤣😂 this can be excused. 🏃🏃🏃

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2 months ago

Saying sorry means admitting that you did or said something wrong or its also an acceptable that you did mistake or something wrong, then apologising to someone for it.

So, let's say sorry for our mistakes. Let's be humble by saying sorry.

Sorry if there is any mistake in my comment. Sorry .😃

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2 months ago

Lol I love the way you ended your comment. It's nice to meet you

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2 months ago

Some people find it hard to say sorry even if they are at fault or not. Saying sorry earns you a lot of things such has respect, peace of mind and alot.

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2 months ago

That's right. Let's make peace

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2 months ago

Yes my friend that's true learning how to say sorry from our own mistakes is giving us peace, a peace of life, a peace of mind.

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2 months ago

A peaceful mind too. Thanks for visiting

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You're always welcome friend. Have a nice day.

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