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The essence of love is in its unfathomable mystery. If we demystify love, we would lose it. And that mystery permeates us with a vital force that enchants us, touches our soul and heals us.
In many relationships, the mystery is squeezed out of love. Plans, formalities, analysis-paralysis, definitions ... all this serves to block the spiritual expression of love. That mystery is fragile and requires us to protect it. We must surrender to that sublime drama if we are to feel its divinity.
I am not sure about that. I prefer when everything is clear and I dont have to guess other person feelings