Unfriending People Who Become Toxic
Blog #406
November 30, 2022
Happy last day of November read.cash fam!
Today I am supposed to write my November happenings but I discarded that topic because I didn't have much to share except the busyness that I had in this month and those are shared already on my previous articles.
So while thinking about another topic to talk about for today, I spent some time listening to the Sky podcast by Slater Young and his wife Kryz Uy. I had been a fan of this celebrity couple and just recently I got hooked up with their Facebook videos about their daily activities especially when their sons Scottie and Sevi are flexed. It's so good watching them spreading positivity always.
In the podcast that I watched earlier, it's about how to unfriend someone without unfriending. I was listening intently to their advice about it because this topic is very relatable in our daily life. After listening to it, I get an idea of what to share today.
When I was new here in Marawi, I got to know some neighbors who were so nice to me. Very approachable and friendly at first. My partner would even say that they were his long time friends. The relationship that we had with them was going smoothly for a year not until they started backstabbing me. At first, it affected me because I treated them as a friend whom we can have a good talk whenever they would visit us at home but later on I began to moved on from it.
I realize that it's better to end a relationship with people who are becoming toxic so we can have a peaceful life. I unfriended them and chose to kept myself busy with some other things than to be with those "Marites" or "Hitachi" ones.
Since I hate confrontations or opening topics like this to them because it might likely became more chaotic if I do that so I just stayed away from them. It's better that way than confronting because not all people are open minded to what we are going to say.
Staying in a relationship with those plastic people are not good anymore. They are too good when we face them but when turned our back, they are backstabbing and we can't stop them for doing that because that's where they are good and happy at. Minding other people's lives is somewhat their expertise. They don't care if it's their friend as long as they have a topic to talk about so choosing to unfriend them is better before it becomes worst as time goes by.
"As I matured, I value my own peace rather than staying with toxic people."
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November is full of ups and downs especially in our financial status but thank God we were able to surpass those very down times of our life. I want to thank everyone who still remains supporting my read.cash journey especially to our very supportive man in read.cash for being present always in my articles. Thank you so much to you for being a blessing to each of us here. God bless you always. Keep safe always!
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Recently lagi din po akong nakikinig sa Sky Podcast, ang ganda po kase nung mga topics na tinatackle nila. Pero I agree po ate, we should not surround ourselves with toxic one. Mas okay na po mag-isa kesa makisalamuha sa kanila