Important Thing In A Relationship

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Blog #155

February 10, 2022

The following story that you will read is inspired by the video that I watched earlier on Facebook.


There was a couple that was married for two years. They were blessed with a healthy boy during their one a half year of being married.

But one day the husband decided to divorce his wife so he went to his father and told him about his decision.

Son: Father, I want to divorce my wife because she is an irresponsible wife.

Father: Why do you say so?

Son: She doesn't know how to cook. She even doesn't wash the clothes properly and can't clean the house neatly. She even wakes up late every day.

Father: Is that so?

Son: Yes father. You can come with me and stay at our house so you will see how irresponsible my wife is.

So the father accompanied his son to their home. As soon as they reach home, they saw the wife sleeping together with her son.

Son: See Father, she did nothing but sleep.

The father was just silent as she watched his daughter-in-law sleeping.


The father stayed in his son's house for a week and observe the couples. Then after a week passed, they both talked again with his son.

Son: You see how irresponsible my wife Father is. She isn't like my mom who cooks delicious foods when I was young. Mom can even fix herself, unlike my wife. She also wakes up early morning to prepare food for our breakfast.

Father: My son, you know why your wife woke up late in the morning? It's because she stayed awake late at night just to feed your baby.

Do you know why she can't wash the clothes properly? It's because she is always in hurry. She has many things to do and she also needs to do it faster because when her baby is awake, she can't do it anymore. Her attention is on your son already.

Do you know why she can't cook delicious foods? It's because she doesn't have time to learn it.

When you were young, the reason why your mother woke up early in the morning is that I helped her take care of you during the nighttime.

During the daytime, while she was busy taking care of you, I was the one who clean the house and even wash the clothes during my day off.

Your mother can cook delicious foods because she has plenty of time learning the taste. While I am the one who took care of you.

She has time to fix herself because I help her take care of the baby.

Hearing those things from his father, the son then realizes the wrongs that he did. After work, he spent his time with his so-called friends rather than helping his wife at home.

During the nighttime, he is also so busy playing games on his phone while his wife is busy taking care of his baby.


In a relationship, couples need to help each other, especially when having a baby. Not because men are the ones working, they will make it as an excuse not to help their wives.

Remember, a wife's duty is not easy. Doing the house chores and taking care of the kids at the same time is exhausting. Not because we didn't complain, it doesn't mean that we aren't tired.

Husbands should have the initiative to help their wife so she could have some time to fix herself and can relax too.

For Me The Most Important Things In A Relationship:

  • Understanding

  • Helping Each Other

  • Trust

  • Love

  • Communication with each other

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Key points I got: Understanding, Helping Each Other, Trust, Love, Communication with each other are Paramount in any relationship. Thanks for this

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2 years ago

one side think is all time good,, It's broken true love,,, So we should communicate to each other for living together..

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2 years ago

Exactly, communication is really important in a relationship

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2 years ago

Yeah. That's true

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2 years ago

Thanks for dropping by my article today Danika. Happy ❤️❤️❤️ day

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2 years ago

Thanks for writing. You so nice

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2 years ago

So touchy sis... Mao na huna hunaon sa mga laki ba nga di lalim ang trabahuon sa balay ky naglibog pa ta unsa unahon sis no. Maau pka naa nka entry.

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2 years ago

Lage sis, Dili ng ilang kaugalingon ra ang huna-hunaon. Di jud ra ba lalim ng gibuhat na'to niya sila maka-demand ug attention Wagas...Pwede pa ka makabuhat sis, layo pa man sad deadline. Naa kay 3 days

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2 years ago

Kesyo sila lgi ang naay trbho kunuhay mao kna ra sd ila huna hunaon. Nahimo lgi ta ug maid hahaha. Tan awon ra ani sis kung makahimo ko.

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2 years ago

Lage naa'y trabaho kuno pero dapat ila huna-hunaon nga sa relationship, dapat magtinabangay sis, dba?..Go sis, makahimo pa lagi ka

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2 years ago

Di bya mgkapareho mga laki mao swerte na lng ug mkapartner ta ug musabot gni sa kahemtang nato. No need na ingnon na. TN awon ra sis ky mgzombie pko hahaha.

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2 years ago

Tama ka sis, di jud pareho. ..Aguy Zombie na pud, hahaha. Unsa na ka nga episode?

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2 years ago

Mwnin sis! Season 7 nko hehehe. Anam anam ug tan aw ana ba.

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2 years ago

morning too sis. Ayay hapit na jud sa ending ba. Ako wala pa jud gihapon kasugod, hehehe

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2 years ago

Layo pa jpon sis. Putol putol bya Ako pgtn aw ky dghn bya ta assignments. Libog nko unsay unahon hahaha.

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2 years ago

Kana laging busy Sab ta, di jud dayon kahuman ng Tan awonon, pero sige lang gamay nalang kulang bitaw.

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2 years ago

True jud ayy, Gos should be the center of everything.

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2 years ago

Tama, kay kung wala si God sa isa ka relationship, dali ra kaayo na maguba

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2 years ago

Tama jud mars si Lord dapat center para family. Goshhh, namali kog send tungod sa lag🤧.

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2 years ago

Ana jud Mars kay isa jud na sya sa pundasyon sa isa ka pamilya para lig on ang panag uban...Haha nashock Gani ko ngano dako, Mars.

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2 years ago

Maskin unsa nga problema muabot basta strong ang foundation lisud maguba. Pagiging wife pud mars dili lalim abi sa uban easy lnag pero lisud kaayo labi na walay sweldo. Btw, thank you mars❣️

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2 years ago

Tinuod jud na Mars, lisod maguba basta strong ang isa ka relationship.. Di jud lalim Mars, kahago ug Usahay kulang pa sa tulog niya ingnon lang na "nanay ka lang", hays...Welcome Mars❤️

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2 years ago

Jusko dili jud na mag lang² na kay lisud kaayo na.

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2 years ago

Lisod jud Mars pero naa jud uban nga mag tuo nga sayon ra Amoa trabaho kay naa ra sa balay permi

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2 years ago

Naa permi sa balay pero asta kadagham ug trabaho din wala pajud sweldo.

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2 years ago

Mao jud Mars, Kana ra ang trabaho nga wala jud sweldo

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2 years ago

Tama tanan jud na ate bchlover. Kinahanglan center pd si God sa relationship para naay mag protect hehe

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2 years ago

Tama ka Vince, Mao jud na ang number one nga dapat naa sa relationship

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2 years ago

Wonderful story sis. All men should take note on this especially if they are planning to get married or they already are.

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2 years ago

Thanks sis...Ana jud sis kay once mu enter na Gani ug relationship, both partners kay magtinabangay jud dapat Dili kay pabayaan lang ang asawa

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2 years ago

With kids or not both should help each other in house hold chores for me sis. Hehe, it's a way of bonding too

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2 years ago

Yes sis dapat magtulungan kasi dalawa kayong nasa relationship, hindi lang isa. At mas magtutulungan pa lalo na pag May kids na

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2 years ago

In relationships be as encouraging as possible, but don't be unrealistic. When your in love you must get your priorities straight. Support and listen to each other. Understand each other's ideas.

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2 years ago

Exactly, that's should be put in mind that once getting into relationship, both must know their priorities, understand, support and care for one another.

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2 years ago

Women are really trying, men should be helping their wives with house chores.

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2 years ago

Yeah, they should because wives are not robot that can't feel tired. They feel exhausted too that's why husbands help is needed

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2 years ago

I don't know about these things as I'm not involved in this types of relationship yet but I always observes the behaviour of my parents. No matter how much my father is tired whenever he gets some time he always helps my mother in cooking, washing, cleaning. From my parents, I learned that understanding and patience are the keys of a good relationship. One need to understand others with patience.

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2 years ago

You have a responsible father, I salute him for that.. yeah right understanding with patience is really important to keep the relationship in harmony

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2 years ago

My friend, your story was great. Bravo. Unfortunately, I have seen many husbands around me, who always think that because they work outside the home, and make money for the family, they are no longer responsible for other family matters, and the rest of the responsibility should be on their wives. While other responsibilities are a lot, women in the middle are really helpless. And at the same time, those men say that you are a housewife, don't do these things, so what do you want to do? It's really annoying to hear that...

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2 years ago

I am sorry to hear that my friend. There are really many men who think like. They think that they are providing for the family's needs, they don't need to help their wife at home and that kind of thinking is wrong. Husbands should consider and take initiative to help their wives coz wife's responsibilities are so many...That's really an annoying thing my friend, just because we are housewife, we are restricted to do other things.

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2 years ago

Sometimes relationships become one sided when the other party doesn't do his/her part to help. Marriage requires teamwork too, it is a MUST actually :) All the best to you on the contest

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2 years ago

Exactly sis, teamwork must be present in a relationship...Thank you sis

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2 years ago

You are very welcome sis :) Have a good day to you

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2 years ago

There's no straight manual to having a good relationship, but I agree with all those things you wrote about theost important things in a relationship. If those things are present in a relationship, then the couple can overcome any challenges

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2 years ago

Right, those things must be present in a relationship to make the relationship last

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2 years ago

Relationship important thing in our life. Relationship There are some important things that we need to keep in mind. There are some difficult times in a relationship that we have to maintain.

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2 years ago

You are right mate, in a relationship, there are many important things we need to have in mind especially when we face difficult situations in life.

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2 years ago

Absolutely stunning reply of father to his son about importance of relationship. Really some time we look only one side of story but ignore other one . A successful couple always care each other , assist , cooperates and resume each other.

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2 years ago

Indeed to make a relationship successful, caring, helping, cooperating and understanding each other must be present in a relationship

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2 years ago

Good communication is a must. Because There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage/relationship such as; Love, Commitment, Trust, Time, Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership, Tolerance, Patience, Openness, Honesty, Respect, Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/Ability to Compromise in all things. To all men out there please be sensitive especially if you have a baby.

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2 years ago

You are right sis. Those are the things that could satisfy a relationship and i hope some couples who have been in that kind of situation above would realize those things

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2 years ago

True sis. Dapat be responsible talaga at Hindi selfies.

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2 years ago

We can't just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal, great relationship aren't great because they have no problems, they great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work.

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2 years ago

You are right. Relationship works because they care and understand each other.

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2 years ago

Important thing in relationship is better understanding. Yeah sometimes men don't care or even think about wife rights. This is bad for a pure relationship.

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2 years ago

Exactly, in a relationship, understanding must be present to make it work and last

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2 years ago

Relationship won't survive talaga if there's no care and help to each other ang couple. This is such an eye opener for all the couples who wants to last whatever relationship they have but didn't even care to their partners.

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2 years ago

Tama, kung walang care at love di magtatagal ang isang relasyon. Isa yan kasi sa nagpatatag ng isang relasyon

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2 years ago

Short story pero kapupulutan talaga ng aral Sis. Nakakalungkot at may mga lalaking katulong ang tingin sa asawa nila, yung kailangan pagsilbihan talaga sila. Di nila alam struggle na sa part ng babae.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis, di nila naisip na napapagod din yung mga asawa nila. Gusto nila pagsilbihan lang at Wagas kung maka-demand ng attention. Kung di maasikaso, magagalit pa

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2 years ago

Ganda ng story sis, relate ako ng kauntian

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2 years ago

Hehe, thank you sis. Saan ka dyan banda naka-relate,

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2 years ago

Basta sis hehe

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2 years ago

This is just so right sis. Marriage is a partnership, which means that both parties should be willing to be each other's helping hand.

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2 years ago

Exactly sis, kaya pag pumasok sa ganyang stage dapat alam na ang dapat gawin. Both parties dapat magtutulungan para tatagal ang isang relasyon

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2 years ago

Sana maraming lalaki makabasa nito dae para maliwanagan naman na dapat nagtutulungan at hindi dapat demanding sa mga asawa nila.

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2 years ago

Sana nga dae kasi di biro ang trabaho ng isang asawa. Napakahirap kaya at nakakapagod din

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2 years ago

Yun yung mahirap talaga ate,kapag lagi yung pagkukulang yung napapansin sa relationship without understanding the other part. Kaya nga partner eh kase dapat nagtutulungan sila hehe. Hirap kaya maging Mommy especially kapag more than 1 yung anak na kailangan alagaan

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2 years ago

Tama ka dyan Mayiee, pag laging pagkukulang ang napapansin, di nila ma appreciate yung partner nila.. mahirap talaga maging isa mommy tapos May demanding pa na asawa.

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2 years ago

Ang ganda ng lesson nito sis taa naan na daat eh nag tutulungan ang ag asawa

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2 years ago

Ganyan talaga dapat ang mag asawa sis, kailangan magtulungan di yung iasa lang sa isa

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2 years ago

Such a great story sis:) kainis si lalaki makademand wagas 😁

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis, akala siguro madali lang yung gawain ng isang asawa...Pero May ganito talagang sitwasyon sa realidad sis diba? Yung todo demand pero wala namang ginawa para tulungan yung asawa nila

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2 years ago

Oo sis madaming ganyan, karamihan mga bata pa kaya immature at di pa handa sa buhay may asawa. Pero kalaunan naman eh natutunan naman, di solusyon ang maghiwalay. Away lang pero walang iwanan.

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2 years ago

Tama ka diyan sis, May nakilala akong ganyan. Very immature pa yung lalaki. Naglalaro pa nga ng marble kahit May anak na pero nung muntik na siyang hiwalayan ng asawa niya, nagbago na siya. Ngayon super responsable na sa kanyang pamilya.

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2 years ago

Yes sis that's true. A part of a couples they must helping each other. They should understand each other. The husband should realize and understand about the part of his wife. He should help her especially when the couple has a baby already.

Man should have in initiative too. He shouldn't complain. He should understand the situation and make a way how to make it settle and easy.

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2 years ago

Exactly sis. Being a wife isn't easy that's why she also needs a help from her husband especially when they have a baby already.

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2 years ago

Yes sis kahit di ko pa na experience damang dama ko na yung pagod sis.

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2 years ago

Ma feel mo talaga yun sis kasi diba naging parent ka din sa mga kapatid mo noon?

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2 years ago

Oo sis pero iba talaga pag baby pa sis.

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis, lalo na pag May sakit yung baby. Isa yan sa struggles naming mga nanay

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2 years ago

so beautiful story, and also the duty of a mother is unending 365 days a year without any break,.

Imagine what she would have gone through if that husband divorced her.

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2 years ago

You're right, a mother's duty is unending ...She would be sad and maybe would be depressed if his husband will divorce her

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