Let's Normalize Respect.

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2 years ago

Let's start with this quote.

Source: Pinterest


It's easy to understand, I guess.

Previously, I said that Politics In Every Corner is an in-demand issue or a hot topic that is often discussed from early in the morning until night falls. Like bread in every coffee, or a side dish in every meal. As the date of the election draws nearer, it is becoming more intriguing and at the same time toxic.

Information and updates about the current situation of the politics here in our country can just be seen anywhere, literally in any medium that we can outsource this information from. Technology is getting advanced nowadays and has been a great help to all of us. We can easily access information wherever we are and anytime we want. Thus, it allows people to have their research about their views and preferences and enables them to share it with other people so easily and in instant.

Since politics is widely talked about right now, people are around-the-clock watching over their candidates online. They are researching all information that they can find about them and sharing it with others for them to know. That's right since it's vital to know them well, research is a must. But then, every person has a different perspective about it depending on the knowledge that they have accumulated. And when they share, some might agree or some wouldn't. Some people are insisting on their views and opinions while others just keep silent and just avoid the ruckus.

If you are active in social media, you'll see that the situation is super toxic. Some people would throw comments and hateful speech which is already below the belt. They would argue, slander, defame and cut ties with each other just to defend their candidate. Even the bond between family members and friends was destroyed just because they have different candidates that they are supporting.

It's just so sad to see things like this. Now, even if you just click a like button on a post of a certain candidate, they will claim that you are supporting that candidate. They will cancel you if they hate the candidate that you are supporting. If you will check the profiles of those who mostly drop comments on the posts of politicians, some of them are even professionals, which means that they are supposed to be well-educated and well-mannered. But Nah, they are even the ones leading the negative campaigning.

Like this recent event in Bacolod City, a supporter of the Pinks throws a flyer into BBM's face while doing a caravan. Maybe, some of you have seen that video which is circulating int the internet now. Previously, a Pink supporter also criticize a tricycle driver for being a BBM supporter. Now, what does that implies? It just implies that you can't respect others' decisions and you don't also have respect for them as a person.

Why is it so hard to normalize respect? Can't we have a peaceful campaign for elections? Are you proud of what you're doing by canceling other people who don't agree with you?

That is so toxic.

Refer to this another quote.

Source: Pinterest

It's similar to the first one, I guess I don't have to elaborate that.

It's normal to have different choices. It's normal to have views and opinions. It's normal to defend the ones we support. However, it's not normal to be toxic, and that cancel culture is surely abnormal in any sense.

If you can't respect their choices, then don't expect to gain their respect. Don't defame someone there, and be a victim later when you get bashed. Know your limits, and don't be abusive or rude to others. At the end of the day, whoever wins the election, politicians will just have a truce with each other to maintain supremacy. That's the reality in politics. Politicians who were enemies in the past are now allies. Whoever is strong in position and machinery, will gain a lot of allies. They don't value dignity and reputation at all just to gain power.

Since you fought so hard for them, after the election, maybe they will make peace with each other. Then, you who made enemies and have destroyed your ties with your family and friends, what will become of you? That's why respect is vital in this election. Whether your candidates win or lose after the election, if you just have respect for the people around you, it's still a win since you haven't made any enemies and shamed yourself in public.


Again, let's normalize respecting each other and have a peaceful election. That's all I can say. Thanks for reading!

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2 years ago

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Nako ma'am kung ako sayo mas ok maki sali para ma real talk mo Sila hahaha Kasi ganun ako eh Lalo kapag alam Kong Mali yung mga pinapakalat nilang info jusko Manda lang talaga Sila saken pero minsan mas ok manahimik kung gugustuhin natin Ng walang gulo ss buhay naten.

Btw hi po I am your new supporter here sana Po maging prends Po tayu hehe

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2 years ago

Takot ako ma bash eh. Hahaha. Ayod na lang mag-share dito, at least walang toxic dito.

Salamat nga pala sa pag-subscribe. Sana mag-enjoy ka sa pagbasa ng mga contents ko.

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2 years ago

Ok lang yan ma'am hahaha it's better nga wagaingialam eh

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2 years ago

Many claim for respect but they themselves don't give one. We do things and say things that we don't want to be accountable for. How can we earn respect with that? It's wise to avoid those toxic people.

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2 years ago

Sarap sana sagitun yung mga halatang fake info yung pinagsasabi, kaya lang baka kuyugin ako. Wag na lang, scroll up na lang ako para walang gulo.

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2 years ago

Ahh, your words touches, respect is only for those who deserve not for those who demanded. Actually, the fever of social media is spread everywhere and now people are using this for only negative purpose.

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2 years ago

Social media become so toxic now. It scary to drop a comment there.

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2 years ago

I also saw the videos of Pipay who also disrespected Toni by shaming her in public. Like what they doing, they shamming and also making their names dirty heist.

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2 years ago

Oo, saka yung kay Dawn Chang. Tapos kapag na bash, pa-victim agad. My gosh. Wala naman ata sila paki kahit madumihan pangalan nila. Ang pakay lang naman nila, maki ride on sa issue para sumikat.

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2 years ago

Yung expressing one's self has limitations too. Wag naman pisikalan. If masasama lumalabas sa bibig, wag na sigurong sabihin. Kasi masakit ang mga salita. Yes, importante ang freedom of speech, but sana in a healthy way. You are right sis, respect na lang talaga. After all, we only have 1 vote. Give the liberty to choose their bets.

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2 years ago

Yun nga sana eh. Wag naman sana pairalin ang pagka toxic. Hays. 😌

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2 years ago

Grabi ung sa kay bbm, di ko napanood yan ha. Bastos ampt. Di nila ata alam ang salitang respect ee 🙄

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2 years ago

Kaya nga eh. Tapos yung rason nila, tinulak daw sila ng bodyguards ni BBM. Wala naman sa video eh.

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2 years ago

Hahaha wagasan na wagasan na talaga ee parang itong eleksyon lanh na ito ang pinaka magulo

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2 years ago

Seriously? Hala bastos nmn masyado, di ba pwede mag behave nlng at hayaan ung supporters ng ibang candidates e express sarili nila? Toxic talaga politics nowadays, actually before pa ganyan na. Bashing is everywhere, where is my freedom now?

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2 years ago

Gusto ko nila exercise yung Freedom of Speech pero hindi man lang maka respeto sa opinion ng iba. Parang yung sa kanila lang yung may halaga, kapag iba yung sinabi ng iba, galit na sila. Nakakatakot mag reveal ng sinusuportahan ngayon.

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2 years ago

Nakita ko din yan sa fb sis. Yung mga tao talaga ngayon wala na respeto talaga. Kaya nga sis subre toxic na sa fb now dahil sa election. Subrang nakakasad lang na ganyan na panahon ngayon. Lalolng malugmok sa kahirapan dahil na rin sa mga ugali ng tao.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga eh. Parang may paki naman yung kandidato kung ano man ang mangyari sa kanila diyan.

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2 years ago

Totoo. Eh after ng election naman tayo pa din naman ang magtatrabaho at kakayod para sa pamilya 😅

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2 years ago

I hate those people yung mga nagbato kay BBM ng flyers di rin nila inisip na may mga bata na nandoon nanunuod sa mga pinag gagagawa nila. Nakakainis lang kasi yung iba sineseryoso na ang election talaga. Pati na nga mga brands and fastfood chains nadamay din sa mga kaselfishan nila. Porket hindi lang yung gusto nila ang gusto ng iba jusko sabi nga ni Sen. Joel doon sa Interview ni Ms. Aiko sakanya

'Pag nirespeto niyo ang isa't-isa, dapat respetuhin mo din ang kanilang paningin. Hindi yung lahat ng gusto mo, dapat gusto din ng kausap mo.'

Mahirap bang mag respect ng Opinion and kagustuhan ng iba? Pati karapatang pumili para sa Bansa nila pinagkakait pa ng iba. Akala mo'y sila ang nasusunod. Hays

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2 years ago

Ayaw na ayaw nila ng diktador pero sila mismo nagiging diktador na rin.

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2 years ago

True, the toxicity of social media has gotten so high. That some people don't really seem to know what respect means and how it could be earned from others.

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2 years ago

Mga feeling entitled kasi. Akala nila sila lang tama at matalino.

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2 years ago

True, haha napakaraming mga self righteous sa lahat ng social media platforms. Kaya I'd choose to stay silent nalang baka awayin ako ng mga hindi mag agree sa aking choice

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2 years ago

Respect is valuable. Continually review if a person or organization deserves your respect.

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2 years ago

Indeed. Will do that.

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2 years ago

I agree sis. We should respect each other's choice. Sa pamilya namin, iba-iba kami ng natitipuhan. But we don't argue. Though there was one time na sinabihan ako ng di magandang salita ng kapatid ko kasi magkaiba kami ng kandidato. I just laughed na lang.

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2 years ago

Kung pareho lang sana ng lahat ng tao ang pamily mo, baka di magulo ang kampanya ngayon.

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2 years ago

I totally understand why they are being disrespectful, but I don't understand why to a certain point where relationships are being affected. Don't they understand that those candidates have no care to them at all? Gosh! Many users thought as if they knew everything about the issues. Without doing a comprehensive and careful research.

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2 years ago

That's why I'm keeping my vote a secret to all my family and friends in real life, kasi alam ko dami ako maririnig na batikos kapag nalaman nila. 😄 makapeynk at pula pa naman karamihan sa kanila. Tapos madali pa ma butthurt yung iba kapag sinagot mo.

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2 years ago

I had read a lot of toxic post on facebook sis. I could not actually understand why they need to post that below the belt issues. Everything was chaos on soc med!

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2 years ago

Yeah. I always avoid posts with political content. It's dangerous.

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2 years ago