How to talk to anyone with "Confidence"...

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What's the most awkward moment during the conversation??

Wait I tell...

The most awkward moment is when we do not understand "what to say next?". When we lack to speak and an awkward silence is created in our conversation.

This often happens when we are talking on the phone. And When our conversation is over on the phone, we mostly says "Tell me more, what's going on" (or btao, kya chal rha h).

Why does this happen to us??

Why do we keep silent when millions of thoughts come to our minds?

I discuss some psychological tricks here...

So, firstly

No Filter Approach:

What's the filter in our mind??

For example,we have filter placed between our mind and our mouth. A lots of thoughts arises in our mind but filter stuck our thoughts , and stop to arrives the mouth. There are many things going on in the mind but we cannot speak. Something is going on in the mind and we want to speak but can't.

Why?

Because our filters work in such a way that it shows us impressive, cool, stylish in front of the other person. Like we should say something that the man in front of us is impressed by us. Because human wants to impress themselves. Man want his praise in front of other people. Thats his nature.

What's happen to its?

We stop our conversation coz a lots of thoughts arises in our mind and we didn't not decide what to say so, we can't say anything.

What can we do in this situation?

Just set aside a filter and what you want, just speak. Be a straight forward person at that moment. "What will the next one think, stop thinking about it."

Always speak truth and then It's not your headache, that the next person like or dislike your talk.

Just train your subconscious brain

Pratfall Effects:

For example we said something in the beginning that was not impressive. And the one Infront of us was not attracted to us. Here, pratfall effect said that your likeability increases if you make mistakes.

If we make mistakes the person in front of us thinks that it's like me. That's the pratfall effect.

Means to say don't make extraordinary person in front of others. Don't think about perfect here. Nobody is perfect. Because we are humans, and every man makes a mistakes.

In extraordinary version we lose our real personality. So, be real in front of others "who you are".

Conversation Threading:

For example, someone tells you that , he get up in the morning and walk first. And you said , that I don't walk in the morning. Here the conversation is end.

Instead of this "I don't walk in the morning", you tell to him, that's

What's the benefit of walk?

What's the time when you walk?

How long do you walk?

Has walk improved your health?

That conversation is called the threading conversation.

The one who didn't understand the threading conversation is not more attracted to someone.

In easy words , take the branches out of what the person in front is saying.

Threading Conversation is must in co- relationships or business relationships.

Concluding thoughts:

Here we discuss three psychological facts that how we boost confidence.

Confidence talking:

👉No filter Approach (Remove filter just talk)

👉Pratfall Effects (do mistakes,don't be perfect)

👉Conversation threading ( find thread in conversation)

I hope guys, you learn something from here. If you also know about this then share it to with me.

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