Lovelife problems: How to move on

28 39
Avatar for Athaliah
1 year ago
Topics: Love, Advice

Hello guys! How's your love life? Is it still on fire? Or losing out of firewood? The flame gets weaker eh? As far as I've known, love is like a water in a transparent glass, when it gets colder it makes the glass more blurry. Like my past love life stories, it's just so intense at first but when years passes by, whew! You'll find out how difficult is it to maintain the momentum. Cr*p! Tahaha, I still remember those days, I spent a lot of money to buy her gifts and things that she wanted but still, she left me alone, broken hearted and shattered.

Well, enough for painful memories! I still got over her and the pain that I felt was all gone. So, let me give you an advice as a love expert! Just kidding, I'm not an expert at all, I'm a loser lol, but I have some experiences how to cure the incurable love pains and move on tips. So here are some tips that may help you.

Acceptance

Errr! I know acceptance is so hard to practice, especially when you really love the person. Letting him or her go, isn't easy to do. Some other commited suicide due to extreme feeling for that person, but don't waste your life for that human! Accept the reality, that's how love goes! Sometimes you win or fail, but you must accept the fact that you're not the best for her/him. If you really love her you must not chain her, set her free and accept the truth that you aren't meant to be. Ohh cr*ap! so sad, but that will help you out! Acceptance.

Meet new people

If you really love your ex, you can't move on easily. Much more when you're seing her everyday. So! I'll recommend you to go to a place far from her, meet new people and new friends. If you can recreate a new social media account, you can do it! Don't let her face stuck on your mind again. You can make new girl friends, even not a girlfriend, but a girl friend. That would ease the pain. Falling in love to a new person, makes you break the chain that constrict you from the past. Go shoo! Find someone.

Freetime hack

Hey! Sometimes when you're alone in your free time, usually, you'll end up thinking on that someone. So! I prohibit you to do that! Henceforth, you can go and watch anime, watch funny videos, play mmorpg! Play basketball, eat something sweet, just do anything that would make you happy. Here a strong tip; try to admire an anime just like, saitama! He doesn't fall in love or even feel emotion, so feel that you're like him! A steel hearted! Haha, I've tried that before and it worked! I watched all episodes of OPMan, nevermind. Just, make your spare time fruitful! Don't just lay in your bed and cry like a baby! Stand up! Be confident and wear a smile!

Time waiting regeneration

Eehh? Should I wait for too long? Is there any other way to ease the pain in a short period of time? Well, sorry to tell you my friend, but it really differs on how deep is your love to that person. The more you love the longer it takes to recover. But don't ya worry! Time heals! Just wait for a couple of months and just do all the tips that I had given to you. Don't be a coward! It's painful I know, but if you have the acceptance pill, you can really move on without suffering for too long. It won't stick with you forever anyway. Time is the best way to recover, just you wait.

Build a better version of you

Grraaahh, I'm back (glowed up)! That is what I want to hear from you, when you're already immune to her deceitful beauty. As you wait for the time, you can rebuild yourself a newer version of you. If you're fat then, go exercise, eat less! If you're to dumb, study! If you have too many pimples, sleep early and eat a cell regenerating foods, If you're scrawny grab a gym! Just, make the pain as your motivation to keep up, then you'll be successful. After all, when you're out of the cage, you'll be like a beatiful bird in the midst of the jungle, everyone will stare at you.

I hope it helps you anyway! Thanks for dropping by!

_______________________

ANOTHER ARTICLE FROM MY HEARTBROKEN FRIEND!! HAHA ANYWAYS INCLUDE ME IN YOUR PRAYERS BECAUSE I AM NOT FEELING WELL RIGHT NOW HUHU. I GOT A FEVER AND A SEVERE HEADACHE GOSH 🤢.

Sponsors of Athaliah
empty
empty
empty
Thank you so much dear Sponsors 🥰

Lead image from unsplash.com

10
$ 3.75
$ 2.62 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.73 from @Vincent21
$ 0.10 from @Codename_Chikakiku
+ 10
Avatar for Athaliah
1 year ago
Topics: Love, Advice

Comments

Hope you get well! As long as naa pa tay reason to fight why not dba? hehehehe if he/she already gave enough reason to leave nganong pugngan, ang importante you gave the best and you shouldn't be regretful about it. Sa Glow up lang ta magkita Ex awww haahhahah

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Mao jud as long as willing pamo duha i work out mskang naa may kaluyahon fight lang haha charot🥰

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Sana okay kana inom tambal inday haha

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Love Life usually has problems. Problems occur between two people for one reason or another. But these are the ones we have to solve ourselves. We have to solve them and move forward. We have to strengthen the relationship.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Yes dear friend🥰, the solution of those problems are found within us❣️

$ 0.00
1 year ago

i hope you'll feel better soon...take your meds dear

$ 0.00
1 year ago

I am slowly recovering now mamsh medyo nahihilo pako ng kaunti, thank you po,🥰🙏

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Aha, why your every friend is so much heartbroken? Btw, take a well est dear mate, Your health is more important than any other thing. Don't go outside without a mask because in this season morning and evening air is not good for health.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Hahah i dont know either, Thank you mate🥰, I am feeling quite better now . Yes, I'll keep that in mind🥰

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Nagustuhan ko po yung, freetime hack mahilig kasi ako sa anime eh.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Build a better version is what I love!!! It should be! No matte what glow up is the key hahhaa char. With that u will find yourself worthy.

True Acceptance is the key to heal the pain.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Absolutely, sis if palagi lang tayong iyak ng iyak wala ring mangyayari charoot kay better to accept talaga🥰

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Hahah truee, napapagod na nga akong umiyak eh kaya na accept ko na ang sitwasyon pra ma okay na ako hahhahahaha lovelife pa more

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Pinakalisud jus is to accept labi na if dugay na sa relationship. Basta oy lisud dawaton hahaha.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Gane samot ng pila namu ka years hays hilak haha

$ 0.00
1 year ago

May bee ep kapo ba?

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Nope, na witnessed lang ako sa friends ko hahaha

$ 0.01
1 year ago

Get well sis, I don’t want to comment about being broken hearted😁

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Aww thank you sis medyo okay.x na yung pakiramdam ko, haha broken hearted ka nu? Charoot😂

$ 0.00
1 year ago

How should I suppose to move on if I have no ex🤧🤧just kidding haha, it takes time for the broken heart to heal kaya important talaga na may reserba hahaha.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Hahaha wala kapang jowa ? Weeeeh atleast may idea kana pano mag move on haha

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Astig bro! Ganyan talaga mga pogi, dapat reserba. Ehh tama ba?

$ 0.00
1 year ago

No answer for that. Still in anger for those days. Hard to be ok. That's why I prefer to be a Devil.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Did someone hurt you back then? Hmm you dont deserve it that kind of woman.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Eyy scary.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

This is helpful langga. Yes acceptance, we need to accept what happened and you need to let go all the things burden you. So you have a freedom and it will heal your pains.

Yes Langga build a better version. Don't waste our time to lock ourselves from the past but keep yourself lifting up. Build yourself again. Stand and continue the life with brighter smiles.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Tama talaga ate kasi if magmumokmok lang tayo wala rin namang mangyayari kaya better to achieve and be the better version of you, mahirap mang gawin pero there's nothing wrong in trying.🥰

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Yes Langga. Totoo yan sobrang hirap gawin pero kailangan mo lumaban at subukan kasi pag nagmumokmok ka lang, nothing will happen and you worsen the situation.

$ 0.00
1 year ago