Rational Thoughts

It is human beings nature that everything that is close to our heart is given margin of doing flaws. There is no given scale to measure affiliation of heart. But, everything has a limit. It may look extreme mindset, but the wisdom lie in letting go others. Whatever hurts the most, whoever wants to leave, And whatever torn deep from inside should let gone forever. There is a need to square the circle between sticking to someone and getting apart for saving relationship.

How some relation Become toxic:

Expectations:

Expectations are the main reason of all conflicts. In my opinion, when a relationship start deteriorating, the very first phase is expecting more than one does. The unfulfilled expectations leads to discontentment which ultimately convert into ego and jealousy.

Comparison:

Comparison generates a race of excelling from one another. Comparison is not ingrained in human nature. It is generated by society already in race. Comparison with the people also give rise to conflicts.

Ego vs. Self respect:

People often undermine their self respect in their relationship. Respect should be the priority of every person. Human beings are superior creature. They deserve respect and honor. Self respect has different meanings than ego. Some people call their ego, the self respect. Ego also deteriorate any relationship. Getting apart from others for saving self respect is a wisdom. While leaving good relations for ego is no less than foolishness.

Changing oneself for others:

Change is a good thing. Losing originality for superficial change is not a good thing to do. People often demand change in others but don not want to abandon even the worst if their habits. Those people are toxic. They want to change society without changing themselves. Equality is the prerequisite of every relationship.

Pardoning:

To pardon others for their petty mistakes is necessary to move forward in life. People often misuse the favours given to them. Keep forgiving unless your heart says.

Fear of loosing:

Love people from the core of your heart but if they return the same back to you. But, sticking to the people who have no space in their heart for you is denial of self respect by one to oneself. There should not be any fear in abandoning those people. People often become our habit. Our mind works the way we command it. If one decides to leave someone with full determination one can does it ultimately.

Differences:

Differences between relation emerge due to lack of talking. For instance, those children whose parents are very close to them, are more happy and satisfied as compared to those who have no closeness to their parents. Parents should not leave their children to grow with the flow of time. Rather they should be very understanding. They should not command their children rather in a friendly manner leads them.

Conclusion:

Human beings often develop affiliations with others. They compromise their self respect to remain stick to them. It is because they do not think practically. They let their emotions overpower their mind. However, there is nothing that is impossible for humans to do. Self respect should not be compromised at any cost.