Cheating & Charity.
Emotions, feelings are part of live creatures which is something built-in characteristics by nature. We learn quickly by coping our sorroundings, parents, siblings and react to special circumstances with specific meaning.
Cheating is trick in which we go in lose by some one to whom we trust , more clever, fraudulent mind and knows the week point about us.
Yesterday I got cheating for only 200 PKR by a person who was sharp and did a new trick with me , made me fool in seconds and when I come to know , he was disappeared. Actually I was looking parking for my bike because it was huge rush on a famous food point due to Sunday. One boy came and asked what can I help you sir ? He was in good wearing , neat & clean footwear and well shaved. I think he is from that outlet.
I requested him to bring two burgers for me. He replied with great smiling face that " no problem sir , just wait 5 minutes". I gave him 200 PKR and sit on bike in wait. He goes straight to vendor window but never came Back. I wait double then his time but nothing happened.
I parked my bike at last and went in . Asked about that boy , they totally denied about such employee. I stressed, angered on my ownself on this cheating. It was not a big amount but I fustrated strongly on this cheating. How innocently I becomes fool? Until now that incident grinding in my mind. I paid again ( now at right point) buy the food and came back Home. My daughter offer me those burger but I refuse to eat because that cheating kills the taste of my mouth.
Same night one of my neighbor came , knock the gate and requested for some money. I asked why? She replied that my daughter is sick and I have no money for her medication. I know that sister since long time and she never beg or request anything even she is poor. She requested for 200 PKR only and I immediately give her and told her that it is charity/ donation and no need to return Back. She was so grateful and went with lot of prayer for me and my family.
Now I gave equal amount on two places but one gives me fustration, anger , feelings of revenge, bad thinking and stress but second one gives me relaxation, peace , satisfaction and self respect. Spending the amount same but results are different. That are our emotions and feelings against the situation happens to us. A act of kindness, generiosty, sympathy and condolence gives inner peace while a act of fraud, fakeness and duality leaved stress and anxiety.
That is the life of our routine and we should be careful about the people around. Blind trust can hurt us anywhere, anytime and from anyone.
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