There are many people who promise to be by their side, but only a small part of them can keep that promise. It is neither easy nor difficult to spend a whole life for a person holding his hand. It is possible to make a 'good' 'home' with just 'love'.
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When mixing the dust rose slowly in faith
My mind is poisoning you
Then darkness called this 'life'
Need one or two stars ..... "
I have noticed a trend in folklore, whenever they are asked who is the closest person! In most cases the answer is yes, either the parents or the children. I think the husband-wife relationship goes somewhere and overwhelms everything. I have some personal arguments in this regard. The relationship between parents and children is the only relationship in human life that people get from the time of birth. Human beings are born with this relationship. This relationship is an acquired relationship. So this relationship is inseparable. But yes, just like you can't be a parent just by giving birth, you can't call yourself a child even if you are born. A relationship stands on its own feet from the love and understanding of both.
The second is the relationship that society imposes. Which we call social relations. Such as PC-aunt, uncle-in-law, brother-sister. Since man is a social creature and since he loves to live in a group way, he builds a larger family with these social relationships.
The third and last relationship that comes is the acquired relationship, which no one imposes on a person after he is born. He acquires it by himself in the basin of life. Regardless of age, religion, race, people earn some friendship in their lifetime. Yes, this relationship has to be earned. Husband-wife relationship is a special and valuable part of this friendship. Two complete strangers discover themselves in the course of time and are bound by the promise of living with each other for life, making each other's life more beautiful. Signing the paper does not legally get the husband's wife's badge. This relationship is achieved through mutual love. It does not require social or legal recognition. He can spend his life as a wife. So to me, this relationship is a matter of faith and commitment. It's just a matter of mental recognition. Just like a man doesn't sign a paper to be a man's friend, or follow a social norm, a husband and wife don't have to go through that if someone wants to give their relationship social or legal recognition. It is their personal wish. Because the relationship that is formed on paper can end in another pen. But the relationship that is formed from the mind cannot be erased. The people are not able to form a relationship from the mind. The story is spreading. There is so much frustration and loneliness in the city.
Life is a mixture of good and evil. Rise and fall is in almost everyone's life, but very few people can achieve success by accepting everything and living together. They can be like a bright pole star in the sky of this dark, smoky city.
If human life is like a tree, then its roots are the parents, without whom the tree would not grow. The fruit flower is the child, who is the purpose of life. But over time they fall to the ground to give birth to new trees. And the trunk of this tree is the husband / wife, with whom man spends most of his life; Those who stand side by side in stormy waters. They give structure to the tree called life. In simple language that gives life the ultimate form of life. Parents will say goodbye one day by giving up all the responsibilities. The child will also move away with his own life. But in the end your wife / husband, your only comrade will be with you. So take care of this relationship, give consequences. You will see that you have lived a beautiful life.