Criticism

In our society at present the number of skilled people is less but the number of skilled people in criticism is not less. Criticism is the main task of some people. But this unwarranted criticism of them is sometimes very harsh and no one thinks that it can make a bad impression on others. Not only the people of the society are on the list to criticize; Sometimes family members and friends are also seen. Actions, manners, nothing escapes criticism. Sometimes criticism is for your own good. You can correct yourself in criticism. But baseless criticism not only aggravates the problem but also gives rise to inferiority complex.

What to do in case of baseless criticism (my opinion):

Do not listen to baseless criticism:

Ignore criticism. Avoid baseless criticism and critics. Why make yourself small with words that have no basis? Why bother with what people thought unnecessarily? Your friends and family know you just as much as you know yourself. What matters most to you is what your friends and family think of you. It's good that you don't care what other people say. On the other hand, your friends and family should not be involved in any unnecessary criticism of you. And even if they are involved, show them the truth behind it. In general, it is entirely up to you to listen to the criticism of the car and not to the car. Listen to who and what you think is important to you. Find out the reason behind his criticism and no one else.

Do not fill the mood of the critic by protesting unnecessarily:

Many want to protest immediately when they hear baseless nonsense. Many protested loudly. But it is more likely to increase rather than solve your problem. Remember, the person who is criticizing you is doing it knowingly to humiliate you, to upset you emotionally. There is no basis for this criticism. On the contrary, he is happier when you go to protest, because he realizes that his purpose has been achieved. You are giving the critic a chance to be complacent by expressing the pain you have suffered by protesting in vain. Remember that whenever someone goes to baseless criticism of you, it means he is jealous of your improvement or your position. The main reason for his criticism is to get you out of a good position by hurting you emotionally. So don’t fill someone’s mood by protesting baseless criticism.

Do not hesitate to protest when needed:

In some cases the damage is greater if the situation is ignored. One more thing to keep in mind, if you keep your head down and keep quiet all the time, the level of criticism of you will increase but not decrease. Protest vigorously in cases where you are supposed to raise your head. But don't gossip in secret, ask questions directly to the critic. Want to know the reason for unnecessary criticism against you. Courageously deal with their criticism whether one is with you or not. If you don't learn to protest, it's your fault. If you can protest and free yourself from such baseless criticism, your self-esteem will increase. Confidence will increase.

There is a lot to hear in life. You need to know how to avoid bad things and accept good things. Whether it is in real society or through social media.

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